Hey all,
So here's my brief story. We've got Girl A - I'll call her Sarah. I've known Sarah for 6 or 7 years and we've been good friends. Never really felt anything romantically for her, but started developing feelings for her a few months ago. We've gotten drunk at parties and made out a few times, but nothing more serious than that.
About a week ago, we are talking and I tell her that I have feelings for her and don't think I can be just friends with her (or anyone I'm that attracted to). She, with different words, implies that she'll always love me as a friend but the romantic feelings aren't mutual. She continued on to say things like "I'm not sure what I'm looking for", etc.; but I'm a man, I can deal with that. I still stood by what I said when I couldn't really be friends with someone I was so attracted to despite us being friends for so long beforehand and let her know that I'd need some time to figure out where we stand.
So there's a dating site that I've been signed up on for quite some time (Honestly, I just use the thing to "Thumbs Up" or "Thumbs Down" girls while I'm taking a ****), and Sarah came up as an option to "Thumbs Up" or "Thumbs Down" (Or like / dislike, can't recall). The system works where, if two people both Thumbs Up each other, it initiates a chat between the two of you where you can get to know each other. So I thumbs her up (why not). About an hour later, I get a notification that she Thumb's up'd me, too and it opens a chat. The first thing she says is "Hey handsome, fancy meeting you here, haha"
Now, this was the first time we'd talked since I was honest about my feelings, and that's how she starts it. Why would she do that? I have some small talk with her, then she starts texting me and talking like nothing had changed. Normal "friend" stuff. We end up texting back and forth for the rest of the day, and during the conversation she said "I'm going out of town for a week, but lets get together when I get back. It's been too long since I've seen you."
I really don't know how to read this. Any insight is much appreciated. I feel like she's just toying with me.