So, story is this:
Been with my GF for about 7 years now, and new years eve is this tuesday. Usually we go out for dinner, watch the ball drop and spend time together. This year she tells me shes going to a club with her best girlfriend( Before this i arranged us going out to dinner 2 months ago, informed and reminded her about 6 times since then) So she magically forgets that i made plans. I asked whats the deal, because my impression was that new years eve is the time where you spend the eve with your loved one, watch the ball drop and turn the page on the year starting fresh that next year with the next chapter of the relationship. So i got pretty irate about it, as i hate having plans cancelled and there is only 4 nights a year where i deem "Sacred" and that its supposed to be me and her time. So she then tells me when i bring up the whys, and she just tells me " I'm not really interested in new years this year." So it bothers me that she rather go to a club which i was told its a girl thing and that i wasnt invited, and leave me alone on New years. Does anyone else see whats wrong here? Or am i wrong in the presumption that new years is the time you spend with your loved one?