The rule is simple "treating others as one would wish to be treated". It's a way of life.
-One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself (positive or directive form).
-One should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated (negative or prohibitive form).
-What you wish upon others, you wish upon yourself (empathic or responsive form).
Do you follow this rule?
If you "do" or "don"t" explain why.