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Is it really fine? I recently uploaded a (what I think is cute) picture to FB. He says it's fine.. But I'm thinking otherwise.. Is it really "Fine"?
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2013-12-09, 05:19 AM #1The Lightbringer
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When a guy says "It's fine"..
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2013-12-09, 05:21 AM #2Warchief
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Sounds like that's a conversation you should have with him, instead of random strangers on the internet that can only guess. He can give you a better answer then any of us.
I know it sounds really crazy, but it just might work.
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2013-12-09, 05:21 AM #3Deleted
What is the picture of?
And yes. He's not a woman, so he means fine when he says fine.
And don't overanalyze it. Him saying it's fine doesn't mean it's not "really fine", it just means that fine was the word he chose to describe it with. It being fine doesn't mean he thinks it's only fine.
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2013-12-09, 05:22 AM #4Deleted
Just to clarify, the picture you deem as "Cute".
Is it a selfie?
And are you going duckmode in it? If not, context, context is everything.
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2013-12-09, 05:22 AM #5The Lightbringer
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men usually don't have ulterior motives when they say it's fine..
although if he's trying to get into....
well lets just say a man will say nearly anything to not ruin the moodStill I cry, tears like pouring rain, Innocent is my lurid pain.
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2013-12-09, 05:22 AM #6Void Lord
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Dark Archon has it right. Though expect a lot of guys to want to see pics here lol
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2013-12-09, 05:22 AM #7The Lightbringer
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Lol. Whenever my gf says "It's fine" I know that means it isn't okay.
However, when I say "It's fine" it means it's okay, good, fine. For me, there is no double meaning with the phrase.And I saw, and behold, a pale horse: and he that sat upon him, his name was Death; and Hades followed with him. And there was given unto them authority over the fourth part of the earth, to kill with sword, and with famine, and with death, and by the wild beasts of the earth.
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2013-12-09, 05:23 AM #8Field Marshal
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Every person is different, of course, but for the most part, the way you translate guy-speak is you take what he said, and that's it. No real need to dig deeper, no real need to figure out if that's what he really meant - we are, in general, very simple creatures.
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2013-12-09, 05:23 AM #9The Lightbringer
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It's me... With my face, and a little bit of cleavage. This is my first relationship, I don't know what is "fine". :/
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2013-12-09, 05:25 AM #10Dreadlord
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It's fine.
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2013-12-09, 05:26 AM #11The Lightbringer
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Originally Posted by Resies
I hope so... Because now he's answering my texts with generic answers... Instead of "yes c:" for example...... :,,(
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2013-12-09, 05:27 AM #12The Lightbringer
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means he is cheating on you and will be dumping in the coming weeks
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2013-12-09, 05:27 AM #13The Lightbringer
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stfu >.>.. Women are fragile, stop. Originally Posted by mizeri
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2013-12-09, 05:29 AM #14Field Marshal
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So here's the other thing about guys - if you ask our opinion and we give an answer, you're allowed to ask "are you sure?" exactly once. Any more than that, and you get what you're getting, because saying it more than twice is really, really annoying.
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2013-12-09, 05:29 AM #15The Lightbringer
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women train men all the time, do it in reverse, Originally Posted by NoRest4Wicked
if she says 'it's fine'
you take that literally,
if she has a problem down the road just say something like " i think we should work on honesty...you said it was fine if it isn't please say something next time"
keep taking the "it's fine" comment literally, she will start actually saying when something isn't fine, which means you don't have to wonder and try to tear up the nuances of the conversation to figure out if she's telling the truth or not.Still I cry, tears like pouring rain, Innocent is my lurid pain.
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2013-12-09, 05:29 AM #16Banned
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Ask him how he is?
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2013-12-09, 05:29 AM #17The Patient
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Just to be on the safe side, you should probably link us that pic... Originally Posted by Laqweeta
Just to make sure...*shifty eyes*
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2013-12-09, 05:30 AM #18Scarab Lord
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I'm going to guess you're quite young. Originally Posted by Laqweeta
Listen. You can't go through life overthinking every single thing your significant other does. You will drive yourself absolutely crazy. If you feel like there is an actual issue; talk to the other person about it.
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2013-12-09, 05:31 AM #19The Lightbringer
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I turned 21 yesterday, this is my first ACTUAL relationship.. I don't want to mess anything up.. Of course I'm going to over-analyze Originally Posted by PuppetShowJustice
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I have.. He said "It's fine" Originally Posted by Leeches
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2013-12-09, 05:31 AM #20Warchief
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LMAO *Pins ribbon on your shirt* Thank you for the laugh sir. Originally Posted by mizeri
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