"Best sex lasts for between seven and thirteen minutes"

[NoRest4Wicked]

3 or 4 times a night? That doesn't even sound fun to me. Maybe like once in a while, but as a regular thing? Sounds exhausting. I need sleep.

I'd probably end up just handing her a vibrator and rolling back over to go to sleep after the first 2 times.

You know, honestly there are some times I just don't feel like it. There is certainly a thing for too much sex. She's just a monster in bed, but I should consider myself lucky, right?

[Tekkommo]

My gf thinks anything under 3 or 4 times a night is too little. She has a high tolerance for sex I guess, and she likes to quote Betty White "If you wanna be tough, grow a vagina. Those things can take a pounding”. So added together it will be much longer, but I've never stopped to time it. It does take most of the night though.

Every night? Fuck that...

Nothing lucky about that at all. It's fine for the start of a relationship, but after a while, I'd be like, NO! 3 or 4 times a night as well, I'd come home from work and do nothing but fuck till 3am.

I'd probably enjoy work more, knowing I'm safe from getting raped from my gf.

[NoRest4Wicked]

Every night? Fuck that...

Every night we are together, so 3-4 times a week.

[Purlina]

Don't you get sore...?

[NoRest4Wicked]

Don't you get sore...?

Yeah, some times it hurts to get hard or even urinate :P

[Spectral]

You know, honestly there are some times I just don't feel like it. There is certainly a thing for too much sex. She's just a monster in bed, but I should consider myself lucky, right?

If it matches with your libido, sure. If it doesn't, no. There's no "best amount".

[Pickynerd]

Sounds about right to me really. It seems like porn sets unrealistic expectations, when reality is very far from that.

Actually male pornstars have to keep it up for 1 to 4 hours which is exhausting just thinking about it.

Seven to thirteen sounds about right, I mean after 3 minutes you feel like you just ran a marathon and 8 to 10 minutes it starts to feel more like work at times.

Guess it depends if its meaningful/romantic crap, or hurry up and do it because I got to work in the morning kind.

[Hyve]

Yeah, some times it hurts to get hard or even urinate :P

Then tell her that! Maybe she is doing it because she thinks you want it? Just buy her an array of vibrators otherwise.

[Deleted]

God if I had a GF that wanted sex 3 or 4 times at night, every time, I'd just buy her a vibrator. That or she can come to work to explain why I'm always tired. It might be fun having a girl with a very high libido. But not at night, not every time.

[Buttfear]

Yeah, some times it hurts to get hard or even urinate :P

Use more lube and if it's too tight ream her out with your hand first

[Eorayn]

I guess it sounds al right.

[tachycardias]

One time I was taking celexa, and found out the 'hard' way that it delays orgasm to a significant degree. Was kinda fun to go at it for 4 hrs, but afterwards the wife was like 'no more of that' (the med).

[Jackmoves]

Yeah, alcohol kills my abilities pretty harshly, unfortunately. It's especially unfortunate, since alcohol is often what gets people in the mood.

Yeah, I've never had an issue getting a hardon, but finishing has been an issue at times, and when you can't, and just go on and on you start to wonder what goes through her mind, does she think that you think she is a lousey lay etc... vicious circle!

And if you don't have a condom you can't really fake it either, of course I think most girls have had some kind of experience with dudes having some sort of problem a time or two during sex so it shouldn't really be an issue I guess.

Can make for some akward moments thats for sure!

[Themius]

I have a friend who said that her boyfriend lasted okay but she wish he could last longer, he last about an hour...

[Reeve]

Yeah, I've never had an issue getting a hardon, but finishing has been an issue at times, and when you can't, and just go on and on you start to wonder what goes through her mind, does she think that you think she is a lousey lay etc... vicious circle!

And if you don't have a condom you can't really fake it either, of course I think most girls have had some kind of experience with dudes having some sort of problem a time or two during sex so it shouldn't really be an issue I guess.

Can make for some akward moments thats for sure!

Dunno how you could fake it even with a condom. Women can feel it.

For me, alcohol kills my stamina I've never failed to get an erection, but I have had trouble maintaining it after the foreplay if I've had alcohol that night. It sucks.

[Deleted]

but i paid for the full hour!

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool made my day.

[Kerath]

Yeah, I've never had an issue getting a hardon, but finishing has been an issue at times, and when you can't, and just go on and on you start to wonder what goes through her mind, does she think that you think she is a lousey lay etc... vicious circle!

Speaking from female perspective, alcohol kind of numbs things for me too. And not even a lot of alcohol. Even after a couple of glasses of wine I find it's nigh impossible to get over the line, as it were. Everything can be perfect, just the right angle, rhythm and so on, but nope, nada, not bloody happening. Which is fucking frustrating as a little alcohol does seem to put me in the mood.

So yeah, after you've both had a few it can result in a long and rather fruitless effort :P

[Spectral]

Speaking from female perspective, alcohol kind of numbs things for me too. And not even a lot of alcohol. Even after a couple of glasses of wine I find it's nigh impossible to get over the line, as it were. Everything can be perfect, just the right angle, rhythm and so on, but nope, nada, not bloody happening. Which is fucking frustrating as a little alcohol does seem to put me in the mood.

So yeah, after you've both had a few it can result in a long and rather fruitless effort :P

I'll toss in that this isn't universal. My girlfriend and I are definitely both at our best a bit tipsy. Not sloshed, falling over drunk, just an ~3-4 drink buzz.

[Kerath]

I'll toss in that this isn't universal. My girlfriend and I are definitely both at our best a bit tipsy. Not sloshed, falling over drunk, just an ~3-4 drink buzz.

Lucky her! Wish I could say the same
It's great for my other half because he doesn't usually drink and a couple of drinks tends to result in me getting quite 'demanding' with him :P

[Gamdwelf]

What's a sex?