You link an opinion piece based off an SNL skit and use that to show he is disconnected? I would have to agree with you. I was not, however, arguing that he was not disconnected. I was trying to show the absurdity of claiming he fails miserably at connecting with the average American. If that was true, then his ratings against Obama would be much worse. Currently he is at his lowest point against Obama (according to Gallup), and while I agree it is because of his partial disconnect, I would not say it is failing miserably.
If he was failing miserably, it would not be even this close, and this is the worst he has done against Obama in quite awhile.