I do understand where you're coming from. 5 years ago, before I started playing MMO games, I'd probably support your opinion. But time spent with "people" (I tend to stray away from calling them actual people) on the internet taught me that if you're trying to develop any sort of a connection with someone whom you don't have physical contact with, you'regoingtohaveabadtime.jpg. It's just way to risky on your emotions, and consequences are in most cases mentally painful. If there's one thing the internet teaches you, it's that the only way to avoid disappointment is to not expect anything from anyone, and I'm quite certain that we agree that Dota is no exclusion to this rule.