Originally Posted by
Judge Malthred
Going off what you describe, you sound like a jealous controller type. You talk about 'getting the awkward stuff out of the way' i.e. how many people she has slept with. Seriously? You talk about it like it is standard procedure to divulge your history. It isn't, to most people. The fact that you needed to know, and now that you do are over-come with jealousy should be red flags on her part to GTFO.
Will it go away? I doubt it. I don't believe that people can change on a fundamental level, they can only learn to control their impulses/reactions. So you might be able to deal with it at some point, deep down it will always nag at you in some way.
And if knowing about past relationships puts you in this state of mind that you openly admit is wrong and you feel like an asshole then the best advice I can think of for someone like you is DON'T ASK - ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS ANYWAY. The only thing that needs to be divulged at the start of a romantic relationship is STD's as that can directly effect you. That's all you need to know about their past, additional information is to be given out at their discretion.