With an awesome girl, however, recently, I'm seeing some things coming out that has me a bit concerned. Since we both work and have our own schedules, we've agreed to talk at least once a day. However, recently, it doesn't seem to be enough for her and she wants to talk 2-3 times a day. Me, personally.. I'm not big on talking on the phone. I'd rather chat it up in person. Anyhow, when she doesn't hear from me more than once, she gets worried and freaks out unnecessarily. I have told her countless times that communication is a TWO-WAY STREET and that nothing is stopping her from picking up the phone and reaching out. I told her that while I have my phone with me, I don't use all my free time calling people randomly. She thinks I'm losing interest in her and I told her that is NOT the case.
Anyhow, another thing I've noticed is that whenever we're together and we meet up with other people, if I talk to (friendly, NO strings attached) or even look at another woman (not even googly eye staring, just casual glances because they happen to pass by), she will later text or call me and ask if I think she looks beautiful or what features I like about her the most (physically). While I am generally happy with the relationship, the primary recurring themes of not calling enough or her constantly asking what I like about her is starting to irritate me. She tells me she is confident in herself and knows her worth and beauty on the inside and out, but alot of the questions she asks me makes it seem other wise.
Basically, how do I remain firm with her and let her know how I feel about those two things without being a douche? She is EXTREMELY sensitive and is having a rough week at work so I don't want to add anymore flames to the fire.