Is assertiveness an undesirable trait?
A little background on me and why I ask. I went back to my old company, and was looking to get a promotion into management. Your current manager will rate you on a scale of 1-5 on ten different categories. The lowest I scored was a three in "assertiveness." I agree with this CURRENTLY. The first time I worked at my company I was very assertive and to the point about things. I didn't seem to get treated well as a result. Most of the people seemed to rather be treated as if they never did anything wrong, and could never be criticized in any way. Even on things regarding safety, work ethic, or getting the job done in general. When I got rehired, I decided to turn a new leaf and just be easy going in general. As a result I have been given a low score in assertiveness.
Before people accuse me of just being an asshole instead of being assertive, here is the definition:
-confidently aggressive or self-assured; positive: aggressive; dogmatic: