So, I have been finding myself in this really interesting dilemma right now.
A friend of mine has done a lot of really douchy shit to me, mistreated me etc yadayada the standard stuff, to the point where that friendship ended, is completely over. Now, I have so far, not done anything bad in return. This might sound like hearing only one side of the story, but I am that way, I am a people pleaser and I always try to do good by everyone.
Now, I have been feeling like this friend did so much terrible shit to me, that my inner angel and demon has been arguing if I should take the highroad and just let it be, or take the lowroad and get the satisfaction of doing something bad in return. It should be added to this that we have been (good) gaming friends, and that we have no real friends in common at the moment and this person got nothing to throw back at me really, so I am really in a nothing to lose position other than losing my dignity.
Now, I know this person has been cheating on her boyfriend, I got evidence of it, she told me numerous of times about it in chat logs. She is this kind of person that "I cheat on my boyfriend... but I love him!", yeah... that person... The question that pops into my head is, to tell the boyfriend or not.
It should be added that I kinda know the boyfriend aswell as a friend, just not as good, but played with him a few times. Feels like he also deserves to know, since there is no way she is telling him, she has already been hiding it from him for an ongoing two years.
Normally, I would let it go. I am not the type of person that spews shit about others. But in this scenario, I feel like I got nothing to lose, been treated so badly that a bit of "payback" would feel nice aswell as that the boyfriend kinda deserves to know.
Would you take the highroad or the lowroad?