Originally Posted by
FrankLampard
Could be an interesting topic.
Firstly, my story.
My father is a very, very stubborn man. He's confident and has a lot of pride. I on the other hand am very open and willing to change my thoughts and opinions. I can accept if I'm wrong and can/will apologise to the people who I have wronged. My father finds this extremely difficult. He's the type of person who would blurt out "I TOLD YOU SO! I WAS RIGHT WASN'T I?". I've been on the end of this many many times when I was growing up as a lot of people know, it's not a nice feeling. However, whenever I was right about something and he was wrong, I kept it to myself.
Anyway, we had an argument. He's now holding a grudge against me and hasn't talked to me for three weeks. I swore at him (Fuck off) when he called out my girlfriend in the above manner. Normally, I would hold my tongue, but he did it in such a malicious way, it upset her and annoyed me that he would have the audacity to shout at my girlfriend who's only ever been friendly to him. It really didn't need to be done, but that's the way he his and he will never change. Perhaps you'll see that I was in the wrong by swearing at him when I could have gone about it in a different way. Whenever I told him to not act like the way he does, he tells me it's "my problem".
I don't feel I should apologise but I'm fed up of this poisonous atmosphere and might just do it, to return the harmony. He will never back down. He sticks by his guns, even if they're wrong. Perhaps that's debatable, but in my view and the way I have been brought up, I see it as his error.
TL;DR - Do you think I should apologise for something that I believe I don't need to for, to end a three week grudge?
I will probably apologise eventually just to get it over with.