I was reading through the other post about the woman who chooses to be fat, and I was, as a fat woman myself, wondering WHY is it so taboo to intervention for someone and their weight. I mean, we can literally complain about anything else that can be helped, but, why not when someone's fat? I mean, I'll be honest, I do have a couple of health issues that make it REALLY hard to lose weight (under-active thyroid and sleep apnea) but I'm working on them. I'm due to get a cpap machine soon so hopefully I'll have more energy to really exercise after I start breathing and sleeping right at night, and I'm working on my thyroid meds to make sure my levels are right. I try to eat correctly (I do cheat and use 3 teaspoons of sugar and a boatload of creamer in my coffee...can't do without that) but I've been swapping ground turkey in place of ground beef a lot, basically cut sodas out, drinking tons of water, walking, etc...And while I'm not doing EVERYTHING I could, I'm trying -- even though it's not working at the moment, I'm still trying --
but the thing that got me started? My husband came to me and said "babe, I love you no matter what, but I'm worried about your health"
Why is that so wrong? We can intervention when it's drugs, abuse, addition to anything but food. I don't understand why...who wants to watch their loved one eat themselves to death?
just wondering what everyone's thoughts are on this.
Edit -- I wrote this way past my bedtime (heuheuheu) so I wasn't the most coherent person ever. I'm asking why it's taboo for someone you know PERSONALLY to say "please could you start watching your weight? I worry about your health" and not walking up to a random fat person and smacking the cheeseburger out of their hand and saying "LOSE SOME WEIGHT FATTY". I mean, if we have a relative doing meth or addictive to gambling or anything else destructive like that, we'd step in and help if we could -- and let's be honest as fat people...most (and I do mean like, 90%) are fat because we like food. I know I certainly got to be 300lbs because food is DELICIOUS.