You are somewhat correct. The debate itself is rather non important, since quite literally none of the people involved in it actually matter. A bunch of no-name game industry people with over-exaggerated opinions of their own self importance slinging around their dirty laundry, against the backdrop of the pretty much completely inbred clusterfuck that is "games journalism" is not newsworthy.
What should be somewhat newsworthy however (if allegations are true) is the accusation that this chick has used her so called "personal life" interactions to directly and indirectly screw over other people and their business ventures in the name of self profit. If the whole case of Zoe deliberately getting the TFYC Rebel Game Jam shot down simply so she could turn around and pimp out her own vapourware game jam sans competition is actually true, she should be looking at some rather serious legal ramification. Not to mention the moral shitkicking she deserves for attacking a pro women's Game Event in the name of her own personal brand of "feminism".
Finally, however, I really have to ask:
Is it actually objectionable to "slut shame" someone if it is fairly obvious that that someone is, infact, a huge slut and has used said fact to their advantage? If they are, infact, fucking their way to the top, why is it "wrong" to point this out?
I mean, do you really get to hide behind the shield of "but that's mysogonystic, bigoted and biased. You shouldnt be saying mean things about me", all the while doing everything you have actually been accused of doing?
How bad do your actions have to become before the shield no longer protects you? Seems like a lot of people fall on the side of "your actions can never be bad enough", which is just rather sad.
And yes, "slut shamin" or similar behaviour without proof is pretty obviously wrong, but the evidence here is pretty damning, and at some point, you just have to sleep in the bed you have made.
Yeah you're right some internet nobody and her hundreds of rabid followers are capable of doing what celebrities with all their expense lawyers and advisers are not. I've seen websites, including this one, allow posts that ignore court orders about divulging details of court cases. But she was somehow able to stop all this where the law has failed in the past? How did she manage this?
Big companies have being buying reviews for as long as there have been reviews so why is some women that no-one has really heard of, who created a game that no-one has really heard of sleeping with someone that reviews games such a big issue?
The simple fact is that the internet allows people to quickly access information from multiple sources sites that offer poor or biased reviews will quickly be found out and they will suffer from people avoiding them thus cutting their revenue. Having a witch hunt against some women will do nothing to improve the problems with gaming journalism.
Its the height of journalistic excellence *thumbs up*
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Did you even bother reading what I quoted?
That's what I thought *hint its your own post talking about K's reputation at the end*
Also, my point was they don't seem to give a damn about their reputation as is. As most the stories are nothing but click bait.
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And what the fuck has that got to do with you?
If she took money from a charity event for herself then this is a real life crime which I suggest that the charity leave it to the real life police to deal with and not some angry people on the internet.
Again if she openly mocked those with depression this may well fall in to the territory of an actual crime.
To me "slut shaming" is more when a girl has slept with a ton of guys during her life, she gets called a slut but if it was a guy doing it he'd be a hero. Or calling a girl slutty for clothing and makeup. All of those things are wrong. But sleeping with 5 guys whilst not in an open relationship is slutty, especially if she did it for reviews. At some point you have to be able to call it how it is.
Being prepped for fallout, and having the zeal to hunt and kill.
You prob could throw out a few, "someones legal team was prepped and ready to go" and maybe you wouldn't hit a bullseye, but get close. Or, you can maybe just assume that she was ready for it, because she has had experience having to defend herself legally from the kind of shit she provokes.
It's just classic, one person crafted a situation they were prepped to deal with, going on i think there.
But then again you could also say this is creating content for her game too.
"If you want to control people, if you want to feed them a pack of lies and dominate them, keep them ignorant. For me, literacy means freedom." - LaVar Burton.
I can't believe I'm actually going to bother to reply here, but you have to understand that the gaming media is very different from the mainstream media. Because of the limited reach of the gaming media, it's easier to reach out to all the major players.
There's also a huge difference in that "mainstream" celebrity media like TMZ etc. thrives on drama like this, where the gaming media has very little interest in brewing up a shitstorm especially if they're linked to it in the first place.
You seem to be missing the point. It isn't that people are surprised that this sort of thing is going on. It's that they're against this sort of thing happening in the first place. It's the tip of the iceberg and has a pretty negative impact upon the industry as a whole when biased reviews are dished out. That there's all sorts of additional baggage to deal with such as the woman pretending to be a voice for equality only to then go against all of the ideals that she was being praised for supporting just makes it even worse.
Re: Point A - She isn't aiming very high, so the list doesnt have to be very long. Banging your boss, when your boss is a practically un heard of indie game dev isnt exactly hooking the big fish there.
Re: Point B - She is a "Gamer Gurl". She has a vagina and a victim card. Sadly, that is pretty much all she needs to generate shitstorms of epic proportions on le interwebs.
just going to quote this since people are missing the point. to reiterate what the quote is saying, we all know this shit happens. People just don't like that it does.
The people that are reasonably angry don't care about who might of had sex with who, they care about that fact that "gaming journalism" shouldn't be about who you know or do or whatever. And the fact that if someone brings it up the people fiercely defending Zoe shout down anyone, reasonable or not.
What saddens me is Adem Sessler getting involved. I truly respected the man until I seen him support Zoe. I'll never be able to look at him the same again.
That's like suggesting that someone starving on your street isn't a big deal because there's thousands of people starving in Africa. It's a silly and dismissive stance that accomplishes nothing. If you don't care about a particular issue then that's fine - nobody is forcing you to get involved.
A) Yes.
B) There is absolutely no evidence of her supposedly sleeping around other than a rambling blog posted by a jilted ex, which people who hate this woman (for either personal or ideological reasons) immediately ate up completely uncritically. Hint: jilted exes frequently accuse their former lovers of sleeping around and all manner of things. And now everyone is acting as if the mere fact that hundreds of idiots repeated the claim, that somehow lends it more credence.
It's transparently a sham and you should be embarrassed both by your own gullibility and your headlong rush to bring this woman's sex life (which you know nothing about) into the debate.
This is spot on.
Perfectly describes how people believe what they read and how they base their opinion on one number that's someone else's opinion not their own.
The world seriously needs some more education on thinking yourself and people to realize to think themselves in a small matter like video games in all of this, and not just on that but in general too that's just a tiny tiny portion of the world. Why is most of the population fighting over someone else's war so to speak? Are we so oppressed? And the education is not about learning math or geography in school it's about teaching kids, future generations and even current generation about moral values, humanity, critical thinking and voicing your own opinion.
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