so personal short story, just broke off a 10-year friendship with a friend of mine (opposite sex)
she had been with her bf for a good 6 years, constant back and forth battle of breaking up and getting back together
me as a married man of almost 5 years, listened to her problems and gave her advice when it was asked.
finally had up to the point where i was tired of her constant vicious cycle and ignoring me except when she was down from her breakup.
she ended up telling me to "fuck off" and that was it.
10 years and dissipated as if it never happened.
not sure how to feel at the moment, i have a mix of finally not having to deal with her problems anymore, but sad to see what the original friendship used to be transforming into a fucking nightmare.
/rant over.
how do you guys deal with breaking off long-term friendships??
EDIT:: wow so i missed a lot while i was asleep.
NO, i never had any feelings for this friend in the early years, i knew her when we were in the marching band together and she was fun to hang with.
let me repeat: NO feelings whatsoever
and obviously this isnt a friendzone issue at all. haha
and yes you can have platonic relationships with the opposite sex, i have a best friend who is of 17 years that is the opposite sex.