wear him the donna mask
wear him the donna mask
OP, you have 17 years of friendship and he is just now coming on to you, so let him down gently. Its surely not going to ruin your friendship. He may be testing the waters, because after all, what is a relationship? Friendship with someone you are physical with as well. You have a place to go back to. Just don't make his advances any more awkward than they are. Say no, and don't change anything in your friendship. Not a thing, or else your friendship is over.
Oh, I thought it was a 17 year old. Never mind.
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"This will be a fight against overwhelming odds from which survival cannot be expected. We will do what damage we can."
-- Capt. Copeland
What exactly is the D?
Anyway I politely explained the situation and hopefully he'll understand
the Doughnut
Be honest. I'm pro-lying depending on what the topic is but with something like this, honesty is the way to go. Giving someone false hope (while knowing that nothing will come out of it) is rather cruel (and not really needed, we're built to handle stuff like this).
(Just read the post on the 2nd page) Hope he understands, in the long run being honest was the best thing for mental health of both people.
Sooo if your name is Adam and he is a guy...? Hmmm
I'm the Dude. So that's what you call me. You know, that or, uh, His Dudeness, or uh, Duder, or El Duderino if you're not into the whole brevity thing.
"If you want to control people, if you want to feed them a pack of lies and dominate them, keep them ignorant. For me, literacy means freedom." - LaVar Burton.
Fuck him in the bumhole, its not like either of you will breed kids
First off, don't feel like you ruined the friendship. He ruined it first, but he was also honest with himself if he has been crushing on you.
Secondly, tell him, be honest with yourself ( which you are, and not interested in him ) and be honest with him. Don't worry about the friendship, you didn't ruin it, your friend took that chance and put the friendship on the line by confessing to you.
Good Luck.
Though technically, the OP never stated he was a human being! For all we know, Adam is a 28-year-old purple blob of protoplasm who is omnisexual (on whom the purple blob of protoplasm's guy friend has a crush).
...what, it makes as much sense as people being confused about one guy being romantically interested in another guy (in this day and age).
It seems like the OP always has dating problems