I normally do not post anything other than a recruitment post but I have recently started reading more of the other post here on MMO. Many people just have an issue with 20 man raids and how it is destroying the guilds and some believe will be the downfall of WoW. Now I am not a player that raids several days a week for several hours a day. I wish I could but I am an older person with obligations that keep me from playing more than 2 set nights for a set time. I want my progression to be more but I have learned to accept what we are able to achieve in the limited time my guild has set up. Let me also add that I am also the GM of the guild, the main tank, and the raid leader. We are a small 2 night raiding guild and currently, at the time of this post, we are 1/10 Mythic and feel we should be further along.
A lot of the argument is the quality of raider that are out there. I feel it is more of a generation issue. I started playing WoW back in BC. WoW being my first experience with any MMO, I had no idea what I was doing. I had no clue what a tank was, healer, DPS or knew what raiding was. At the start I have met some very helpful people, good people, and people who took the time to help each other. This is a completely different topic all together. It was a different time and a different generation. It was generation where people put in hard work to achieve a common goal. Where people helped each other. Now there was bad players and there still are. I am not saying we should keep those who are lazy or just simply fail all the time but there are good people out there that may just need something explained slightly different to get the job done. Patience. Those that know me are probably laughing right now because I am one that have little patience but am more than willing to help someone figure something out. When it comes to raid time, I expect people to be on point.
Wiping is part of the game. Today people quit because you did not kill the boss in 1 attempt or in 1 hour or in the first night. I am not sure if people actually know the amount of time people take to prepare for each boss outside of raids to get faster, smoother kills. When it comes to a guild that has a very limited time to prepare for encounters it takes a little longer. What I see are people who just want to show up and kill a boss because it is what they deserve. If they do not get what they deserve they leave. I never deserved a kill, I have always worked for my kills.
People want to complain about guilds breaking up. Guilds having a hard time finding people. This is all true. We have our issues also. I am not here blaming blizzard and 20 man raids for it. I am blaming the people who are involved. If people just continue to bounce around from one guild to another thinking they are going to climb a leader to be great, you got another thing coming. Greatness comes in time, comes with experience, and comes with hard work. This is something these people lack. I feel the thing that made it harder is the lack of people feeling the need of being in a guild or a community of like minded people. Guilds should have a culture and people should join for the culture the guild is about. Xrealm, and flex raiding took that away. It is not the 20 man format or the quality of people, it is their attitude and feeling that they "deserve" this. There is going to be hard times, good times, ugly times, and times to create friendships and memories.
Blizzard did a good thing in trying to create a way to cater to different player base. Normal and Heroic for the casual player and mythic for the hardcore player. Mythic is the test and if you want to test yourself you need to put the work in. It is like any sport. You go to little league to move into high school sports, to hopefully make that college team, and with the hard work, dedication, commitment, you aim to get with the major leagues but you cannot get there without the work. So do not plan blizzard, do not blame the game, or 20 man fix raids. It is doing what it is intended to do. Blame the players for being little brats that expect to be handed things instead of working for it.