Afraid that my sis is in a pump n dump relationship

[THE Bigzoman]

Well..I got nowhere else to ask about this.

But my younger sis appears to be falling for a 35 year old electrical engineer. Dude gots the Mercedes Benz that i've drooled over and everything.

He reallly seems like one of those guys who was rejected in HS and gets his revenge on women back then by banging one young chick after another. I mean, for gods sake, he only wants to see her at night.

The minute my sis gets somewhat demanding, i'm afraid he's gonna dump her like a used tampon and move on to the next youngin. And frankly, she don't need to be subjected to that right now.

I'm not sure if there's anything I can really do.

[tss]

Is she hot?

[Sinndra]

not your place to make her decisions. she needs to make her own mistakes as well as successes. maybe she enjoys it. not trying to be rude or disrespectful to you, but not everybody shares the same tastes in relationship standards.

[THE Bigzoman]

Unless you have definitive proof of abuse in the relationship, leave it the hell alone. As long as she's a consenting adult you've really got no business interfering beyond voicing your concerns respectfully and then leaving off.

It's my sisters emotional stability.

Like hell it isn't my business.

[Schinto]

Well..I got nowhere else to ask about this.

But my younger sis appears to be falling for a 35 year old electrical engineer. Dude gots the Mercedes Benz that i've drooled over and everything.

He reallly seems like one of those guys who was rejected in HS and gets his revenge on women back then by banging one young chick after another. I mean, for gods sake, he only wants to see her at night.

The minute my sis gets somewhat demanding, i'm afraid he's gonna dump her like a used tampon and move on to the next youngin. And frankly, she don't need to be subjected to that right now.

I'm not sure if there's anything I can really do.

How is it your business what your sister does? Your posts get more and more obnoxious as time goes on, and that's a tough prize to claim, it's a trophy right up there together with your anime avatar shitposter trophies.

[mizeri]

so your sister is attracted to that gold huh

[Kaldreno]

not your place to make her decisions. she needs to make her own mistakes as well as successes. maybe she enjoys it. not trying to be rude or disrespectful to you, but not everybody shares the same tastes in relationship standards.

Exactly. It's your sister's right to get pumped and dumped.

[THE Bigzoman]

How do you know she's not just in it for the fun? Wealthy guy who can show her a good time and take her places guys her own age can only drive by.

Because I know her?

[Only the Best]

Unless you have definitive proof of abuse in the relationship, leave it the hell alone. As long as she's a consenting adult you've really got no business interfering beyond voicing your concerns respectfully and then leaving off.

How is it your business what your sister does? Your posts get more and more obnoxious as time goes on, and that's a tough prize to claim, it's a trophy right up there together with your anime avatar shitposter trophies.

It's posts like these that make me wish this forum had a Like button.

[Bdatik]

I find this thread odd based on OP's previous posts / threads about women.

[Usagi Senshi]

I wanted to make a gun joke with your title but decided to just leave it alone...

SERIOUSLY! PUMP HIM FULL OF LEAD AND DUMP HIM? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

[babalou1]

Well..I got nowhere else to ask about this.

But my younger sis appears to be falling for a 35 year old electrical engineer. Dude gots the Mercedes Benz that i've drooled over and everything.

He reallly seems like one of those guys who was rejected in HS and gets his revenge on women back then by banging one young chick after another. I mean, for gods sake, he only wants to see her at night.

The minute my sis gets somewhat demanding, i'm afraid he's gonna dump her like a used tampon and move on to the next youngin. And frankly, she don't need to be subjected to that right now.

I'm not sure if there's anything I can really do.

1. Im 33 and my last girlfriend was 23 and the previous one before that was 42. The 23 year old was by FAR more mature than the 42 year old. Maturity and Personality > Age.

2. He "seems" like one of those guys? How do you know? Because its what you would do? So what if he only sees her in the evenings. Maybe he works odd hours. Maybe he has other personal commitments (a child maybe). Who knows. You certainly dont or you would have said something here.

I get the "I want to protect my younger sister" mentality. I really do, I have a sister (and a brother) myself. It really seems though that you just need to stay out of her business and let it run its course. I strongly doubt that this is the first relationship of hers that you have stuck your nose into.

It's my sisters emotional stability.

Like hell it isn't my business.

Its really NOT your business

[Crissi]

As one protectve sibling to another, all I can say is: you can give advice, but the ultimate decision is up to her. You cant force her to do anything, and constantly protecting someone form getting hurt means that when they eventually DO, they wont know how to handle it.

Trust me, I've been having to counsel my younger sis for years! She gets hurt, then angry and moves on. Just be there when she needs you.

[PACOX]

You jealous brah?

[Marrilaife]

Gosh, dude, how many sisters you have? Last time I remember you tried to tell your sister she shouldn't have a baby in her own marriage... Can't you just let them live their lives how they want to?

[Crissi]

I find this thread odd based on OP's previous posts / threads about women.

What you want for yourself often differs form what you think is best for siblings you adore. Weird, I know.

[THE Bigzoman]

1. Im 33 and my last girlfriend was 23 and the previous one before that was 42. The 23 year old was by FAR more mature than the 42 year old. Maturity and Personality > Age.

2. He "seems" like one of those guys? How do you know? Because its what you would do? So what if he only sees her in the evenings. Maybe he works odd hours. Maybe he has other personal commitments (a child maybe). Who knows. You certainly dont or you would have said something here.

I get the "I want to protect my younger sister" mentality. I really do, I have a sister (and a brother) myself. It really seems though that you just need to stay out of her business and let it run its course. I strongly doubt that this is the first relationship of hers that you have stuck your nose into.

Actually I haven't at all in the past. It's kind of why i've changed course in recent years.

The guy is fucking shady. I can tell.

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What you want for yourself often differs form what you think is best for siblings you adore. Weird, I know.

How is that weird? Kind of nailed it.

[Crissi]

Actually I haven't at all in the past. It's kind of why i've changed course in recent years.

The guy is fucking shady. I can tell.

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How is that weird? Kind of nailed it.

Weird for that guy, not for you or me. I know exactly how it is so I empathize with ya

[chrisberb]

What you want for yourself often differs form what you think is best for siblings you adore. Weird, I know.

Some may view it as hypocrisy.

[THE Bigzoman]

Some may view it as hypocrisy.

I've mostly advocated being honest about it from the get go.

It may not be happening here, there may actually be some dishonesty afoot.