"It is a little late, after you are both undressed, to say: "I don’t want this.""

[Evolixe]

Sure. I don't see why someone would lie in an anonymous survey.

I think most wouldn't take the survey to begin with.

[Deleted]

I think most wouldn't take the survey to begin with.

You don't need most to take part. You just need enough to provide a large enough sample size and it can be applied to the population as a whole.

[DJ117]

I would rape her in that case if she is an 7 or higher.

[Evolixe]

You don't need most to take part. You just need enough to provide a large enough sample size and it can be applied to the population as a whole.

I don't think you're getting enough from all sides.


I guess I wasn't clear enough yet...

[Deleted]

You don't need most to take part. You just need enough to provide a large enough sample size and it can be applied to the population as a whole.

Fallout not being consistent with the statistical model of society, this creates extrapolation effects.
but yes.

[Schirmy]

Just to address the OP, if either person says after they're undressed, "I don't want this", you put your clothes back on and go watch porn or something. It's really not that difficult to comprehend.

Guess being logical and rational is a rarity in 2015.

[Mellomania]

Just to address the OP, if either person says after they're undressed, "I don't want this", you put your clothes back on and go watch porn or something. It's really not that difficult to comprehend.

Guess being logical and rational is a rarity in 2015.

Reading the entire post is also difficult in 2015....

[Schirmy]

Reading the entire post is also difficult in 2015....

I did and only addressed part of it. Nice semantics )))))

[Florena]

Just to address the OP, if either person says after they're undressed, "I don't want this", you put your clothes back on and go watch porn or something. It's really not that difficult to comprehend.

Guess being logical and rational is a rarity in 2015.

Exactly. I mean I think it's only common sense to take reasonable precautions, such as not getting shit faced drunk around strangers etc, but there is a line between reasonable precautions and victim blaming and the OP is leaning into the latter, especially with the ending remark. Even DURING sex it's fair to say you want to stop.

[Mellomania]

I did and only addressed part of it. Nice semantics )))))

The point of the post is: If it's a rapist, it's to late to say no, because they don't care......

[dubious_doomhammer]

This is the scenario that plays out in my brain:

Woman and man consent to having sex, woman decides "nah, I don't wanna do this anymore for whatever reason", man is preoccupied and doesn't notice or hear and doesn't immediately stop, woman accuses man of rape, man goes to jail. Even though it was originally consensual, man is still fucked for the rest of his life as a sex offender. Seems fair and reasonable, right?

When I hear "rape", I don't think of two consenting people .. I think of someone violently forcing themselves on their victim.

That said, I absolutely don't believe that rape is "ok", but I also don't believe that falsely accusing someone of rape is "ok", either. How do police/courts decide between a violent person and a woman saying a man raped her for not immediately stopping after they had both originally consented?

Meh, shitty topic ... I suppose everyone should just install hidden cameras in their rooms so there's no doubts ;p