There's no such thing as too ugly.
People tend to hook up with people of similar attractiveness. 10s get with 10s, and 1s get with 1s. There really is somebody for everybody.
There's no such thing as too ugly.
People tend to hook up with people of similar attractiveness. 10s get with 10s, and 1s get with 1s. There really is somebody for everybody.
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning.
-Kujako-
I don't think it's that x% never meet that someone, I think it's that x% don't try hard enough. Even people with all kinds of hideous injuries and lost limbs find people, as do grossly overweight people and unemployed rednecks in trailer parks.
Some people will definitely have a harder time finding someone, but I think the saying holds true, you just gotta try hard enough. In this day and age with internet dating being so popular, people really only have themselves to blame.
Online dating is also a postcode lottery. Your geographical location is another deciding factor
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning.
-Kujako-
Everyone has their own standards. There is nothing wrong with having standards and there's nothing wrong with not being interested in someone below your standards, even in regards to aesthetics.
"Love" is not something you "find". It's something you do.
"There's someone out there" is subjective in and of itself. There's no such thing as a "soulmate" (ie, "meant to be"). It is possible, however, that nearly everyone could find someone (demographics and standards aside).
In regards to "online dating": I find it to be more effective as it tends to expose character "traits" you'd rather know prior to meeting them and allows you to weed out the bad ones with little-to-no effort.
Last edited by Mistame; 2015-10-09 at 06:35 PM.
So yeah, online dating is a waste of time, and the paywall sites such as jdate or any other cash grabbing idiots are the bottom of the dirt, they have no shame and will resort to anything to get into your wallet, including but limited to creating fake accounts and sending fake messages.
So that's about online dating.
And regarding someone for everyone - I'd say its more accurate to say "someone for some people". some people need to learn to be happy single. Which isn't that bad. I'm not complaining.
Rofl, I got messages from people who were in singapore, people in qatar, people in greece, in germany and so forth. Like, I don't even. No way of blocking them from contacting me either, it's pointless even messaging me when they're that far away. ._.
But most people messaging me was from copenhagen or malmö.
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning.
-Kujako-
I don't believe there's a 'soulmate' or one person for you.
More like depending on who you are there are a certain number of people you will compatible with at this point in time.