More work = Less choires around the house

[Deleted]

I always find myself in this discussion with the miss.
I work 45h a week, she works 38.

Therfor she (imo) has to spend 7h a week more on choires around the house.

Do you think this is fair? She sure as hell doesnt.

[Reeve]

I'd rather like to have more choirs around my apartment. They make lovely music.

[Reeve]

I would have agreed then you used that pic. Now I just think you are being sexist.

Or sexiest?

[Captain N]

I'd rather like to have more choirs around my apartment. They make lovely music.

I have a choir in my house -- The dogs start singing whenever someone walks by. It's not that lovely during baseball season.

[Forgettable]

She can do whatever she wants if she looks and dresses like that at home.

[Deleted]

I'd rather like to have more choirs around my apartment. They make lovely music.

Heh, funny.
http://www.metronieuws.nl/nieuws/ext...rettige-mensen

[Taeldorian]

Yeah, not really sure why you'd include the pic. I agree though, if you work longer/bring in more money you should do less chores, but you should split them up rather than put them all on one person.

[glo]

Where do you find these choir members to sing in your house?

[jackofwind]

I always find myself in this discussion with the miss.
I work 45h a week, she works 38.

Therfor she (imo) has to spend 7h a week more on choires around the house.

Do you think this is fair? She sure as hell doesnt.

Nope, her obligation isn't to spend her free time cleaning up the house that you two share. Chores get split 50/50.

Did she have her current job when you moved in together? She works full time, it's not her fault that you work more than full time hours.

The selfish one here is you expecting her to do chores just because you're at work for longer when you're both already working at least full-time hours. If I were her I'd say fuck that to you too and tell you to work less if you care about it so much.

[zebreck]

If you both work that much buy a fucking maid and have done with it.

[Deleted]

I would have agreed then you used that pic. Now I just think you are being sexist.

That picture doesnt make the story sexist.

[Rixis]

There is no wife.

[Deleted]

Where do you find these choir members to sing in your house?

http://www.metronieuws.nl/nieuws/ext...rettige-mensen

[Celista]

Well doing housework in something other than heels would probably make cleaning the house less of a daunting task, just saying...

Also if any woman wears heels like that while scrubbing the floors she's either insane or she's trying to get your attention for some sexy bedroom-related activities. You're probably safe in assuming the latter (most of the time).

[Evil Midnight Bomber]

That picture doesnt make the story sexist.

Maybe just don't use a picture at all then. Clearly, you are not sending the right message with any of the images you are choosing.

[Deleted]

Well doing housework in something other than heels would probably make cleaning the house less of a daunting task, just saying...

Also if any woman wears heels like that while scrubbing the floors she's either insane or she's trying to get your attention for some sexy bedroom-related activities. You're probably safe in assuming the latter (most of the time).

Would be pretty awkward if you turn out to be wrong.

[Gilbergrape]

If she is complaining about housework, check what else you might be doing wrong in the relationship (like showing affection), or quickly move on.

[Deleted]

Maybe just don't use a picture at all then. Clearly, you are not sending the right message with any of the images you are choosing.

Just because hardcore feminists see a good looking women in an outfit as sexist doesnt mean i shouldnt use it. Ironically a halfnaked man in the same outfit woulnd be sexist to those same women. Since when do we conform to extremists?

[Evil Midnight Bomber]

OT: the amount of hours spent at work should not enter into the equation. Chores should be split up as equally as possible.

[Celista]

Would be pretty awkward if you turn out to be wrong.

It's your wife/girlfriend, what's the worst that's going to happen lol.