I am very serious and not trying to start a fight. Also of note I rarely kick anyone from a group or am rude in any way and will take a decent level of stupid before I say anything.
I was just in a heroic with a DK that kept getting agro the first few fights, which I found interesting since I was doing way more damage than him. Then I noticed he was in blood presence, so I asked if he wanted to tank and he said it didn't matter. So I let him tank the next fight without telling him I would and he took WAY to much damage. I go back to tanking and fighting for agro but it isn't a big deal because my wife is able to keep up. We then get to the boss in VH that has the nasty aoe and needs to be moved, of course when I tried to move him the GK got agro and then stood there with it and died and then everyone nearly died because everyone was taking way to much damage.(did I mention only one person in the group is over 2k dps?)
So now I am getting upset because I died and we nearly wiped on a stupid easy instance. So I said Blood is for tanking, someone else in the group says yep and the DK says "Yeah" "And it gives a really nice buff."
At this point I gave up and just stood in the instance and made sure the healer didn't die. We get the ichoron (water thing) and I continue to stand there and someone couldn't keep agro under control and they all died just before it did so I finished it off. They then attempt to boot me for being "a bad tank" and I pointed out they could do that all they want but I am not the problem with the group(someone in the group said it was a bad group, yeah for dps under 2k talking about group skill level).
I continued to stand around and at this point my wife finally ended up killing him because he took that much damage. I then stepped in while he ran back and finished off the instance, magically all threat issues vanished and no one but me got hit again.
Now after all of this the group took home that I was mean, that it was just a heroic so he can do whatever he wants, I am a bad tank and he was doing a good job.
So how do you fix this? I can only take so much stupidity from a person before it makes me mad. I don't play a DK, and I don't have any interest in it. I know almost nothing about the class, but the one thing I do know is it had a bad name because of people like him. So what do DKs do when they encounter someone like this?
Also, assuming you wanted to dps as blood, would a dps breakdown look like this?
56% heart strike
26% melee
13% obliterate
4% Death coil?
As I said I know nothing about DKs and was wondering about this.