Answer me this then:
Are you happy rearing you're (6) children?
As a secondary question, would you have been happy rearing only one child and, if so, why did you pursue more children?
I realize these are personal questions so you can keep things broad and ambigious of course, but I'm not trying to be facetious. What I'm getting at is, having children is selfishness in its own way, so labeling others as selfish for not having kids seems misplaced.
"It is not wise to judge others based on your own preconceptions or by their appearances."
They're valid questions, but I'll instead of answering specifics I'll get at the thrust of your point, which is does an act of selflessness remain selfless if the person takes enjoyment or personal satisfaction from the act? I'd say yes, it does. No doubt Mother Theresa took enormous enjoyment from her life of service to the poor, otherwise why would she have done it? It's the fact that she took enjoyment from a live of service vs say a life of pursuing personal wealth, that we credit her for her selflessness.
Please don't mistake my intention. I'm not saying people don't have the right to live their life in a way that satisfies them personally. I'm saying it's a poor reflection upon our culture that for so many of us self-fufillment precludes something as basic to life as reproduction.
That's all well and good as far as it goes. This may be branching too far off-topic (not that this thread was really going places anyway - I digress), but the Earth currently has 7.6 billion people living on it with projections by the UN showing a growth to 11.6 billion in less than 90 years. There are many avenues to explore with that fact alone, but let me focus on just one.
How many of those 7.6 billion live the same quality of life here in the US or other first world countries? Even within so-called first world countries, we have homeless wandering the streets/dying of hunger and disease.
The crux of the question then: is it really responsible to be bringing more humans into the world when so many are already suffering? Yes, many can provide a happy life to their children for the most part. Going back to your reference of Mother Teresa though wouldn't the only real way to avoid selfishness, even in just producing new children, be to either adopt or provide aid to the already existing humans in such need?
That's all pretty philosophical I know, and I'm not putting anyone down for having kids of course. I'm just still not seeing the inherent selfishness of not creating more humans, or the selflessness of creating more for that matter.
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"It is not wise to judge others based on your own preconceptions or by their appearances."
A big problem is that wealth and resources are incredibly concentrated in the hands of a few. If it were more distributed, a lot more people would be a lot better off. But a major reason driving this inequality is the fact that people who are wealthy have fewer kids than people who are not wealthy, so that wealth has far fewer avenues for natural distribution. An ideal scenario would see wealthy people (or those in strong socioeconomic positions) having more kids and less fortunate people having fewer kids. This way you would get less suffering overall, and a greater distribution of resources. In this context, having kids would only be innately moral for a subset of the population.
Problem: Too many people drawing from social services and not enough people contributing.
Solution: Create even more people to contribute to social services.
Catch: Now you have even more people headed down the aging pipeline in need of social services.
Solution: Create EVEN MORE people to contribute to EVEN MORE social services.
Catch: Earth is finite in its resources. Go back to start, do not pass go, do not collect $200.
Last edited by yoma; 2017-11-20 at 03:34 AM.
"It is not wise to judge others based on your own preconceptions or by their appearances."
While there is a clear problem with women in the Western world, putting guys in the "friend zone" is not one of them. Compliance from both parties is required for friendship, and if a guy thinks friendship is a way to get into her pants, that's on him. While some women will purposefully manipulate men for attention, if it's a genuine friendship then there is nothing wrong with a man and woman being friends.
I would love to hear one of those calls that the author is suggesting though, with that exact wording, and the response it gets.
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Bahahahahaha, is this what late stage neoliberalism has become?
Such a modest proposal! There are too many human beings on earth now - not rising above replacement rate on reproduction is one of the most humane ways to control the myriad major problems related to global overpopulation.
As for what I think of it... a load of arrant nonsense that compares unfavorably to contents of the outhouse at a Tauren bean-eating competition; it reeks of that uniquely American brand of patriarchal and utterly selfish and shallow fake-Christianity - a pathetically transparent set of justifications for those whose real motivation is a combination of: can't hook up, don't understand or empathize with their fellow human beings (including women), aren't interested in bettering themselves or their understanding so that they can hook up, hate seeing women as equals, and who hate women having autonomy (especially reproductive autonomy) and also, who are usually deeply, deeply resentful that growing up to be Tony Stark hasn't been handed to them on a platter (and are looking for someone to blame, and will never blame the person they can see in the mirror every day). All it lacked was a, "For the Race and the Fatherland!" line to make the connection to strengthening American theocratic "alt-right" fascism even more apparent (and it's pretty damned apparent).
"In today’s America, conservatives who actually want to conserve are as rare as liberals who actually want to liberate. The once-significant language of an earlier era has had the meaning sucked right out of it, the better to serve as camouflage for a kleptocratic feeding frenzy in which both establishment parties participate with equal abandon" (Taking a break from the criminal, incompetent liars at the NSA, to bring you the above political observation, from The Archdruid Report.)
This isn't accurate. The issue with social services is a demographic bubble, due to the large number of retiring Baby Boomers and the relatively low birth rates since the Boomer generation's, well, boom. If the birth rates were stable over a few generations, without such a bubble, social services would be fine in terms of funding.