All right, gentleperchildren, let's review. The year is 2024 - that's two-zero-two-four, as in the 21st Century's perfect vision - and I am sorry to say the world has become a pussy-whipped, Brady Bunch version of itself, run by a bunch of still-masked clots ridden infertile senile sissies who want the Last Ukrainian to die so they can get on with the War on China, with some middle-eastern genocide on the side
I'm not attracted to Asians, that's just how it is. You're under no obligation to even attempt to justify a personal preference.
While I'm sure it has been covered already in the past 10 pages, I'll go ahead and throw in my 2 cents.
The problem isn't that they have a requirement (because we all have requirements), its that you(not you personally) don't met the requirement and you're not happy about it. You want to say "But I'm a great person if you give me a chance" So the complaint boils down to, I'm attracted to someone but they aren't interested in me because of something I can't control. That's life
Depending on the age, some people grow out of it or should I say change their requirements.
normal?
evryone likes other stuff , i would not want to date a dwarf , and even less is she was fat... taking care of your body says a lot about yourself imo , if you cant respect your own body how can you respect others?
dont have any problems with poeple having demands
It sucks when you don't meet their requirements but it's their choice. I have certain deal breaker features as well (most of us do) so I'm not any better or worse.
I'm 5'11 so generally I don't get hit with these, but in general I think they're pathetic. Any woman who would "demand" a certain height probably has personally disorders and is better off being alone or with her cats. I've seen a few woman on dating sites who have the "Must be 6'2 to even message me" type messages and you can tell their nuts. Penciled/styled eyebrows, way too much makeup, tattoos, etc. Obvious mental illness and insecurities.
who cares - its their decision and their choice
if they are atractive its only natural they would have high standards.
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im gonna go with simplest question ? do you prefer women with big boobs or small ones ?
ofc most dudes will answear "offc with big"
the same is with the case of men's height.
Big or small boobs would not be a deal-breaker for any man worth his shit. If a man's height is that much an issue for you, you're the problem and you're nuts. I prefer big breasts myself, but wouldn't only date large breasted women. People who put these black and white demands are mentally ill and don't seem to realize they're the ones who deserve to be alone.
and yet inreality those who have high standards have valid reason for them - that reason is either they are attractive , wealthy or succesfull in life
and whether you like it or not - those people usually are never single for long - because others are naturaly allured to them.
it may be not fair in your eyes but thats how life works.