Yep. Absolutely.
No. Why aren't the parents doing these tasks?
Knew this was a Tennis thread before I clicked... anyway...
I've never been married, but I live with an ex-fiancee. We fight sometimes, we laugh sometimes, we argue about bills, or who grocery shops or cooks. It's two people, me and her, and we each have our own plans and needs.
If I were to give life advice, I'd suggest living with a roommate, @Tennis, for a couple years before you embark on your marriage obsession.
I call bullshit. If they are making enough money to hire someone for a full time salary to watch their kids while they work, they are making enough money for one parent to stay home and raise the kids while the other works
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But most of the time they wouldn't have to if they were frugal with just one parent working, but nooooooooo, they have to have their full cable TV package, a newer SUV made in the last 3 years, and a house bigger than they need. Then they want to eat out often because they are too lazy to cook, and they hire landscapers to mow their grass because they are lazy, etc...
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The nanny will also be living in the home so that free housing is a huge benefit that they wont have to pay
Lok'tar Ogar! Death to the Alliance filth in the name of the Horde!
3 kids for that rate good luck LOL I'm so glad i dont have kids, but i know enough that most sitters here get 20/hr for baby sitting one kid more kids = more $$$
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How about when you want a 3 bedroom house (one for you/spouse, one for your son, one for your daughter), any car large and safe enough to transport the family, care not for vacations, and you still come to the conclusion "well, we both gotta work. Let's hire a complete stranger to raise our kids", because most jobs that 20 somethings (you know, the ones who can have kids without really worrying about infertility) can get pay hot garbage.
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Breastfeeding can be better in extreme early months at warding off infection, due to the mother's antibodies passing to the child via breastmilk. Most important to this is colostrum, which is an extremely thick form of breastmilk that is only produced for a few days to a week at most following birth.
Formula can be detrimental to some babies due to the presence of lactose, which is more difficult to digest for babies than human breastmilk. Soy-based and other very low-lactose formulas exist to alleviate this issue.
Aside from those two factors, it is entirely personal preference.
Source: I have two children, both partially breast fed until my wife couldn't deal with it anymore, and that is the information provided to us by two different hospitals, 3 different lactation consultants, a dozen pediatricians, and a half dozen pediatric nurses.
Furthermore - the most important thing to early childhood development is a caring and nurturing relationship between parents and child. For the many, MANY women for whom breastfeeding is exceedingly difficult, painful, or impossible, the depression and resentment that result from forcing breastfeeding when it isn't really working, not to mention malnourishment of the child, is far worse than any of the supposed negative consequences of formula.
We should absolutely support women who choose to breastfeed. We should absolutely support women who choose to formula feed. There is zero reason for anyone who doesn't have a personal relationship with the children and/or breasts in question to have any opinion whatsoever.
I dont get why people would want kids to begin with. Guess handing the problem to someone else is a good solution tho.
Have you ever cared for a 1 year old? One of the most stressful working days of my life was working from home while caring for my almost 1 year old. I was failing at my job and childcare at the same time. This notion that 1 year olds are "easy" because they sleep all day long... is bullshit. They are VERY needy.
Can't blame people for wanting it all.
Now you see it. Now you don't.
But was where Dalaran?
Those parents are having a laugh, the pay should be 2-3x that or more for the amount of work (physical and emotional) that is being asked. Raise our kids for less than minimum wage is what they are asking, hilarious.
Probably running on a Pentium 4
Not sure about 2-3x, Payscale says the average pay for a Nanny is around $15 an hour (obviously varies by location)
https://www.payscale.com/research/US...ny/Hourly_Rate
Most likely doing daycare, which cost about $50 a day per child in most areas. So getting a Nanny would be the overall cheaper direction
If you make $100 per hour, this is the obvious choice. There are PLENTY of very good people (perhaps better than yourself) that need a job like this.
Placing your kid(s) in day care for 40 hours a week is _worse_ than spending that time with a parent... I don't even know what to say to you. You sound like a child, and you definitely don't have children (or maybe you're justifying putting your own in day care?)
Being able to have a parent home with a child is beneficial for _everyone_ involved. It's better for the child, and it's a few years of time you'll never get back once the child grows up. You talk about raising a child as if it's a job. It's not.
My wife stayed home with our child for his first three years. She wouldn't trade those three years for anything, and certainly not for three years of work. Yes, I had to work because my job supports us, but there's nothing "unfair" about that; it's just how it is. Life doesn't give a shit about "fair", and you should stop thinking in those terms. I am so glad my wife was able to raise our child.