FOMO: "Fear Of Missing Out", also commonly known as people with a mental issue of managing time and activities, many expecting others to fit into their schedule so they don't miss out on things to come. If FOMO becomes a problem for you, do seek help, it can be a very unhealthy lifestyle..
Reading two words in a headline and making assumptions about the content and the person it's about is pretty much the definition of a knee-jerk reaction.
Okay, so the problem is you saw a phrase you consider politically incorrect and it offended you. Nothing wrong with that but rather than knee-jerking and crying "racist" (an accusation I disagree with) why not write a polite letter to the publisher or even a blog post explaining why it hurt your feelings. You might not get the general consensus to agree with you, and "white people" might never become accepted as a racist slur, but it will probably be a more constructive use of your time.If you mean a country, a region or a culture, List that. Not their skin color, because a culture can encompass an entire region, or only part of one.
Prey tell, what is the point in say "white people" instead of "Americans" or "Westerners" or any variation that would refer to people of a culture or region that would encompass all of the skin colors of said region. I am pretty sure most Americans would have the same basic grasp of another countries cultures or traditions, regardless of their skin.
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That may be the case when it comes to western people. When I mentioned "arranged marriage" to my fiancé, he instantly thought of the one I explained to you. He said they call it that in the Asia, and forced marriage is a whole different thing to them than arranged marriage.
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imo there's nothing for her to explain, she's just been living under that 'stench' for so long that she ended up thinking it's not so bad and that those living outside are simply too quick to reject it
there's nothing to misunderstand about 'arranged marriage', it's when your family elders take control of your personal life and make choices you should be making for reasons unrelated to you, now if by some small miracle you end up marrying the person you actually wanted to marry well you won the lottery i guess? in any other case it's forced marriage that can only lead to misery
if anything it's dramatic that she has to find all those stupid excuses to dodge marriage instead of simply being able to say no
The oath is the obligation, this isn't a difficult concept. You promised to do something, not being able to uphold that promise is failure. I dunno how they do weddings in Sweden but we don't include language that says 'till death or until I fall out of love with you'.
I remember talking to a woman that was eight months pregnant. She said she absolutely loathed her husband...
Mind was boggled...but it was all arranged long before the marriage.