People keep telling me bars are terrible, it's mostly all I have where I am at. I keep thinking I am not the only one here who thinks it is the best of a bad situation. I just keep going and I get numbers but I never hear back when I call. Friend went with me once and she told me they were just looking for a hookup, all my guy friends are just like "duuuude hit that, that's how it starts..." I used to be really heavy. I've lost a lot of fat and put on a lot of muscle. This is all new to me lol. I just want a cool girl I can be with...one night stands aren't my thing.