No. No she does not. Wrathion got the spark of Aman'thul from Lei Shen. Which was then stolen by the Legion. Jaina got the power of thin air and false rumors.
What are you on about? Theramore happened 3 years into the war. Which was started by Alliance. And they were losing it on almost every front until the Horde imploded in a civil war. And even then the Alliance needed to ally with one side to defeat Garrosh, didn't retake any of the lands lost to the Horde AND officially ceded Azshara. What a sleeping lion you got there
These lists aren't dishonest in the slightest.
Yes, let's count losses to Iron Horde for the Alliance.
Let's count Alliance "losing" Suramar and Thunder Totem even though they were never Alliance.
Let's count Bolvar (twice) as lost to Forsaken/Horde even though Putress already joined the Legion at the time.
Let's count a complete random new character like Delaryn for the Alliance, but not any new random characters for the Horde (like Dreven for example).
Let's count Varian as lost to the Horde even though he was killed by the Legion (while not counting Vol'jin).
Let's add "attacked but not taken" disclaimer to Undercity in Wrath, while counting Darkshore as lost to the Horde despite it being the next Warfront, meaning it's still being fought over.
I mean, the near-infinite intellectual honesty of these lists aside, you're not exactly proving Alliance's status as a sleeping lion here.