Originally Posted by
Tonus
Depends on the district you're in. In some areas the behavior is so bad that teachers just have to put up with nonsense like this because the office is overwhelmed with more serious behavior issues. No excusing hitting the kid, but oh my god it was awesome.
A quick lookup shows how ridiculous things must be in this school. The average SAT score is 823 out of 1600, which is in the 18th percentile. Yet the school has a graduation rate of 92 percent because the system is now designed to just socially promote every single kid. That's how you end up with kids like this in the building, who don't give a crap because they know they're not going to learn anything but they're going to pass anyway. What's amazing is the kids in the classroom are all standing up for the teacher, which means this is a problem child who is just left in the mainstream class day after day, making everyone else miserable, because the system is just trying to push him through and pretend he can be a graduate.
US school system is totally broken.
- - - Updated - - -
How can you fix home issues like this?
By the time a kid is a teenager and is behaving this way, the battle is mostly over. He's going to need a come to Jesus moment as an adult to reform, it's not going to happen while he is a kid. I know someone who adopted a kid at age 10, and the kid had a history of abuse. The kid had serious issues and the adoptive parent was wonderfully supportive and involved. The kid continued to act out, then puberty happened, and the rage really started to come out. He had to be removed from the home because he was consistently threatening and attacking his adoptive parent.