Originally Posted by
Underverse
For many people it's a phase. There's plenty of literature out there about it. For some people, it becomes an obsession that they don't move on from. That's the miniscule % you're referring to.
I went through such a phase and was faced with such a 'choice' (though 'choice' is maybe not the right word). It's largely an outcome of circumstance. You need to know how to manipulate yourself without forcing yourself do be something you feel you aren't. It's a challenge, and even greater a challenge if you buy into the idea that it's an innate biological trait that you have, which appears to be increasingly popular despite a dearth of evidence (for example, low concordance between monozygotic twins). People like to tell themselves things that make them feel better, of course.