I don't know the "true" experience? I've been playing and actively raiding since the original beta. The "hard" feeling people describe is only because the game was new. You're never going to replicate that as players have evolved over the years. If you makes things hit harder you're only going to damage the "normies" as you put it and ruin their experience.
This outcome was inevitable and only reinforces the old argument that Vanilla wasn't easier. Which is a different discussion altogether.
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