None of those save the outfit is on that guy on the screenshot you were appraising, and there are thousands of outfits that look freaking great regardless of your tastes. Slap different armor on that guy that looks like some gritty dark souls armor and then what?
Being manly = going to a bar, frat house, or strip club and trying to pick up women. Man I think we're discovering what your idea of "masculine" is, ROFLMAO.
But put that dude in the picture into a button up shirt and some slacks (both of which exist in the game) and he'll pick up more chicks than you ever could.
A lot of people trying out FFXIV has very subjective views about the game and why they don't like it. And I can respect them for having opinions on why they don't like the game. "There is absolutely no way to make a masculine character and every single character is extremely feminine" is an
objectively incorrect statement. You have an insanely warped perception of masculinity, but reading your post, it's pretty obvious what you think masculinity is.
If you think a guy ripped out with bulging muscles, with facial scars, stubble, and styled hair who looks like he's had a shower in the last 24 hours is "feminine" then the problem is you.