Originally Posted by
Biomega
Yes, but it depends on which kind of "opinion" we're talking about.
Of course you can accept or reject an argument for any reason you like. Nobody can tell you that you can't disagree with something. That's not the point. The point is, WHAT HAPPENS TO THE DISCOURSE after you disagree - if your disagreement is based in opinion=I just believe it, then there's nothing more to talk about. You've killed the discussion by pulling the I-just-think-so card, which doesn't allow for further, reasoned discussion. Such an opinion can only convince you yourself, never anyone else; and it's beyond debate, so there's nothing further you can do. It's the argumentative equivalent of crossing your arms and going "nope". Which - again - I'm fine with as a position, as long as it's admitted. Plenty of discussion end this way: someone just goes "I don't believe it, period, and I don't have to explain why" and then you stop and go your separate ways.
If, however, you use opinion=the sum of my positions to not accept an argument, that is different. You explain why you're not convinced, or what fails to convince you when the other party thought it would. Then the debate continues from there, making more and better arguments to try and change things. This is the dialectic of discourse.
Those two options are FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT, even though you could describe both as "opinion". You can't use them interchangeably in discourse, because they don't function the same.
Neither am I. YOU were the one being condescending, because "you see this talk in grad student papers all the time" and so on. The only one who ever brought this argument up was... you. YOU were the one who brought "I actually have a background in history, you know" into this, too. Did I ever do that, anywhere? Did I ever try and directly leverage my personal position, background, or experience? ANYWHERE? Because you did. Do you even KNOW my background, in any way? No? Didn't think so. Because UNLIKE YOU, I never talked about it or tried to make it a part of this discussion.
You're uncomfortable with being pressed for details when superficial nonsense doesn't fly. And so you turn it around and try to make it into nothing but a pissing contest. That's not going to work. Provide substance for your argument, or admit it's NOT an argument and you're just stating a preference that you want heard, not discussed. The ad hominems you can check at the door.
That's what I've been saying from the start.
You're using all this to wriggle out of having to explain yourself, because you, well, can't. All you would have to do is provide evidence for your claims. That's it. I'm not asking for anything else. And instead of doing that, you've spent several days whining about how that would never work because I'm such a mean, mean stickler for actual substance.
Stubbornly refusing to provide evidence when that would just shut me up on the spot is pretty telling. As is CLAIMING "you wouldn't accept it anyway!" rather than, you know, providing evidence and SEEING WHAT HAPPENS. Because that would require you to actually prove things, and you know most of your points are either irrelevant, or specious and unsubstantiated, don't you.
How about "put up or shut up" for a change? Or do you want to write ANOTHER page of text about how you providing evidence "wouldn't prove anything anyway and everyone should just, you know, accept already what I've said and leave me alone and oh my god what the hell is evidence anyway and nothing would satisfy you and you're just being pedantic and SHUT UP AND AGREE ALREADY FUCK I DON'T WANT TO EXPLAIN MYSELF I JUST WANT YOU TO SAY YES, YES, YOU'RE RIGHT CAN'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT".
Yes. Yes I do understand that. I just don't accept it.