I think that's just a symptom of online dating. When I had an OKC account, I got a ton of overweight and single mothers looking to meet up. They were nice enough as people, we'd message sometimes but they weren't what I was looking for.
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cause I think fat girls, an I'm basically it at 160, keep telling themselves they;re curvy, and black men love curves or something like that.
btw,. those pictures of me were at 120. so...not quite as representative xD
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Most PEOPLE are shallow. Men want good looking women, women want good looking guys...ect.
The thin/pretty girls are so drowned in messages that unless you're going after them, they'll never have time to even look for you. Being a relatively attractive woman on a dating site means you're going to get absolutely swamped in messages. It's overwhelming, honestly. So I'd take that less as only those women are interested and more that they may have more time to actually go seeking guys.
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Don't go out with them? I don't see what the issue is here.
So from what I can tell from this situation is this,
1. You are expecting "attractive & thin" Women to Approach You.
2. You are complaining about being approached by "overweight" Women while you yourself are Overweight (not an insult but stating the truth).
I think you just need to change your perspective on things.
I will say, after seeing pictures of Bigzo, I would never consider him to be overweight by appearance.
On another note, what did you expect from a dating site? I've always considered those to be more of a last resort type of thing, although I get you were just testing it.
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well everyone has different definitions of attractive, and it can include non look things that somehow make the girl prettier (like I've been reading smarts from lots of dudes on here). But its ok to admit one is just a bit shallow for wanting a person they'd want to have sex with instead of not attracted at all.
Thank god I never got that on OkCupid, but I did get some real persistent motherfuckers. And the weirdest thing was the guys that would ask me to tell them why I wasn't interested, I'd tell them, then they'd call me close-minded/shallow/a bitch etc. Supply and demand, noob. I can be picky. And it worked out for me because I got what I wanted. <.<