I'm 21 and want to have sex with a 42 year old.

[Zoukan]

I'm 25 and my wife is 52. We are 27 years apart. We love each other. I don't see the problem.

[Bumkin]

if shes hot you're a lucky mofo, obviously go for it

[Adramalech]

I'm 25 and my wife is 52. We are 27 years apart. We love each other. I don't see the problem.

Age difference isn't the issue here. Not for me, at least.

[Bigmits]

Pretty sure this is just a test from the op to see how many people actually read the post or just the title. Which i'm fairly certain that a lot of people are doing

[madmanx]

Correct, you have no obligation to be a decent human being.

The amount of stuff in this discussion that you do not comprehend is staggering but I guess this is what happens when you live in a world of absolutes. White is white and black is black, Right is right and wrong is wrong...grow up!

[tumppu]

If it was just about what's in the topic, go for it, but since there was a mention of a boyfriend, don't. Or, if she starts making advances, state plainly that you don't want to be a third wheel. Unless they both want it and you're okay with it :P

OK, I'll go no further.

[kelystia]

I am very disturbed.

[Tzalix]

You should get your money back. You created a false dichotomy that's reflective of ignorance of some pretty basic mental illnesses.

But the point is it's merely an appeal to the majority to uphold society's morals as the standard. What the society says is utterly worthless unless the society happens to be right, but that's an independent issue that has little to do with whether or not the society holds a certain moral. Besides, you failed horribly to support this one.

It was two basic examples of the more classic symptoms of psychopathy, a strong amoral stance and lack of a desire to feel included in social groups. I think my education served me just fine, thank you. But let's not make this discussion personal.

Yeah, whether society is right is another issue entirely. I'm just trying to give you a little tip about how you'll probably be better off if you approach these issues with morals in mind. For example, respecting the obligations of other people, even if they aren't yours.

The amount of stuff in this discussion that you do not comprehend is staggering but I guess this is what happens when you live in a world of absolutes. White is white and black is black, Right is right and wrong is wrong...grow up!

Oh, if only things were so simple.

[Cosmic Janitor]

Can't you settle for love bites / hickeys like the rest of us?

One of the sad albeit not avoidable downsides of internet pornography :/.

[RapBreon]

The crimes you use as an example are reflective of obligations each citizen holds as a member of the society. There's no such obligation in the case of the sex we call cheating for the person who isn't in a relationship or who isn't violating the terms of their relationship.

Can we assume that not actively and with forethought ruining a child's chance at stable familial environment a moral obligation?

If this was a case of no children, I'd agree to an extent. But the kind of damage this shit does to children is pretty bad.

[miffy23]

Well, these threads at least confirm that the majority of the MMO-C crowd completely adhere to the immature teenage/tweenage guy stereotype.

[dd614]

If she has a boyfriend and children, yes it is wrong and you shouldn't do it. Think of her kids ffs.

[Bats]

It's funny how many people think it's okay for him to have sex with a person in a relationship (WITH TWO KIDS) knowingly.

Of course it's that woman's choice to cheat and at the end of the day she's the person mainly responsible for the act, but come on... have some decency. Don't be so selfish doing it just because you're a horny 21 year old. That's not your only option.

Also think about this, if one day you have kids with your girlfriend and someone had sex with her knowing about your relationship and children, how would that feel?

[Koji2k11]

she has kids and a Bf ... dude dont even think about it she's a taboo zone for you

[Stellalock]

she has kids and a Bf ... dude dont even think about it she's a taboo zone for you

Agreed, OP, put her in your spank bank and move on

[a C e]

basically the OP is saying that its fine to have relations with a ( married/ in a relationship women ) woman if her children and significant other don't find about it. Its just like he is saying its okay to do something wrong if nobody finds about it.

* I will cheat on my wife, its ok as long as she doesn't know*
* I can kill this guy because nobody is around us*

[Spikeydeath]

Dude, fuck anything you want

[Bats]

basically the OP is saying that its fine to have relations with a ( married/ in a relationship women ) woman if her children and significant other don't find about it. Its just like he is saying its okay to do something wrong if nobody finds about it.

* I will cheat on my wife, its ok as long as she doesn't know*
* I can kill this guy because nobody is around us*

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0V_E_Jnyhks

Reminded me of this

[Deleted]

It's funny how many people think it's okay for him to have sex with a person in a relationship (WITH TWO KIDS) knowingly.

Of course it's that woman's choice to cheat and at the end of the day she's the person mainly responsible for the act, but come on... have some decency. Don't be so selfish doing it just because you're a horny 21 year old. That's not your only option.

Also think about this, if one day you have kids with your girlfriend and someone had sex with her knowing about your relationship and children, how would that feel?

The one in the relationship is the one at fault if they cheat on their partner. Not the one they cheat on their partner with.

[miffy23]

The one in the relationship is the one at fault if they cheat on their partner. Not the one they cheat on their partner with.

If the one he/she is cheating with actually knows about it, you can't deny their shared responsibility. He/she is knowingly hurting the partner of the other person involved.