Book was only polish till CDPR made the games. Then, in 2007, the released american ones (due to the game's popularity). In addition, there's this graphic for book popularity. Guess what released in 2015?
Bruh, digital pixels representing a realistic female appearance is basically the same as the digital form (facebook photo, snapchat, etc) of a real girl as far as attraction goes. Hentai ain't my thing, but it's pretty obviously popular enough to show that people have no problem with being attracted to non-real things. Besides that, fantasy is separate from real life. I can't tell you how many imaginary fantasies I've had in my head as far as daydreaming about women since I was old enough to recognize I liked women. It has to be in the millions. Those fantasies are just that: meaningless, harmless thoughts. Anyone who tries to high-horse or act like they've never had such day dreams (sexual, romantic, or otherwise) about stuff is lying.I honestly feel sorry for your "smoking hot doctor" wife if you are that invested in getting hot for a video game character. Please believe me in that I am not trying to be mean in saying this, but you really may want to speak to a therapist my dude.
I know my wife has similar fantasies for things she likes, like Sebastian from Black Butler. It doesn't mean anything, and it doesn't bother me. I feel sorry for you if you think such things don't happen in the head of everyone and also you let someone expressing these things impact your potential relationships. "WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU THOUGHT ABOUT AN ANIME CHARACTER!? AM I NOT ENOUGH!?!" Could you imagine saying that to someone you're married to? lul.