wow imagine killing someone because they're not giving you enough money you have no right to. What a shallow bitch
wow imagine killing someone because they're not giving you enough money you have no right to. What a shallow bitch
Now, dang it! I just had to promise the Millennials that I'd be willing to have sex with them!Originally Posted by Celista
That's what Niagara is for.Originally Posted by Celista
Remember though, do not iron clothes on body.
With COVID-19 making its impact on our lives, I have decided that I shall hang in there for my remaining days, skip some meals, try to get children to experiment with making henna patterns on their skin, and plant some trees. You know -- live, fast, dye young, and leave a pretty copse. I feel like I may not have that quite right.
Sadly, no. You're right though, we had already done the studio wedding pictures and were getting everything lined up when things went nuts. Her business got closed due to nearby arson (used to get the land condemned so a developer could put up apartments), then Beijing's current drive to push businesses like hers out of Beijing (small scale service business -- health and beauty in her case -- run by non-Beijingers) made it nearly impossible for her to relocate. After that, her mother suddenly got too ill to run the family farm (her dad has already passed away), leaving her to take care of everything in Hunan.Originally Posted by Celista
We might have made it past those things and were going to try, but then she got diagnosed with cervical cancer and lost her dream of kids. That was the last straw for her. All together, it was just too much at once for her and I told her it was OK if she needed to break things off. She appreciated me understanding and we're still on good terms, but she doesn't know how long the situation with her mother will go on and doesn't want to dump a load of medical bills on me (her mother's would pass over to her and thus to me if we were married).
So, curses, looks like I'm back on the meat market again. TiC (this is China). I've commented on the "herd" aspect of high context, and in particular how it had really gotten dialed up for me after I was hospitalized. My "herd" has decided that I *will* be married off. Spring has hit, the blossoms are out, and well meaning former students are already starting to assure me that they know "someone nice" in their department that is recently divorced and I should meet them.
Edit: Missed the last part of your reply. No worries, no offense taken, we just don't have a lot of guys in the 60-ish age bracket posting so I chimed in. I'm here in a different environment. In the US, yes, I'd see the whole sugar daddy/baby bit in much the same terms I think you were describing. Now, if both sides as consenting adults are OK with it, I don't have an issue with it (requirements being informed consent and at least legally adult) but that's a fairly specific situation that should call for a mild reality check. Otherwise, I know of a few couples back in the US that had significant age differences, but those were on the basis of personalities and shared interests more than physical attraction.
Last edited by shadowmouse; 2019-03-31 at 05:07 AM.
With COVID-19 making its impact on our lives, I have decided that I shall hang in there for my remaining days, skip some meals, try to get children to experiment with making henna patterns on their skin, and plant some trees. You know -- live, fast, dye young, and leave a pretty copse. I feel like I may not have that quite right.
Ignoring "irrelevant" factors like biology, etc, the delusion is thinking that older men think younger women find them attractive. If they truly thought that, they wouldn't be offering financial benefits. And let's not forget about the delusion of thinking that these women anything but eye candy.
This is a bit silly. A guy is going to be "throwing his money" at whoever it is he's with, regardless of age. And no one pays MSRP for high-mileage, used cars.
One could ask the same of you, given your stance here. In any regard, all that matters is that they're consenting adults. Outside of that, the opinions of anyone/everyone else are irrelevant.
Vs pissing away money on a woman that, if near or the same age, likely has a low or non-existent sex drive.
In some cases, yeah. In hers, not so much. And the implants negate it all.
Yes there are men who look relatively good for their age, but that doesn't mean they'll stir the loins of your average 25 year old because of their good looks.
And yes, there are girls who are actually really into older guys, but again that is not the norm, but the exception.
Bleach bunnies weren't chasing Hugh Hefner for his PJ clad good looks.
My stance is stating what should be obvious. My comment was to educate, save men from financial ruin and based on the OP, possibly their lives. I'm not triggered about anything. Why should I be?
I don't think it's as obvious as you seem. Lots of men seem to think that if they offer money, that young women will no longer find them repulsive and/or will fall in love with them.
It's little peen thinking, especially when these old men approach younger women with no particularly redeemable qualities or even income (like I have said in other posts, most normal women do not care about income to the extent that men seem to think, and the ones that do, you want to stay away from).
The old dude looks like such a nice guy.
RIP
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"This will be a fight against overwhelming odds from which survival cannot be expected. We will do what damage we can."
-- Capt. Copeland
Most of these guys are more aware of the risks, etc, than you give them credit for. They don't need to you to "woman-splain" to them.
The "fall in love" bit is nonsense. Even if it were a real thing, these guys aren't looking for that. And you keep going back to the "repulsive" bit. Sure, a lot of women are conditioned to find older men "repulsive". But there's also quite a few who find them attractive and even more who don't feel either way. So I'm not sure what your point is, other than to inject your opinion, which you've already done.
I'd say it's more of a "dry peen" issue, given the point of their efforts is to get it "wet".
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Trust me, most are repulsed. Like 99%. We talk about this as women. This is the basis of misunderstanding between the genders. Men in their 50s and beyond hitting on very young women and thinking they are attractive enough for such women, when women are simply grossed out or at best laugh at them. It makes these old men look foolish.
Clearly you're clinging to the 1% or less of women who are the exception, not the rule.
You doth protest too much. If you disagree with what I said, I'm sure you can find out for yourself.