Am emotionless for not caring about this girl threatening with suicide?

[v2prwsmb45yhuq3wj23vpjk]

Suicide is natures way of weeding out the weak. I have no sympathy as well

Yeah, I'm sure you have good data to back that statement up.

You reap what you sow.

'cause other people victimizing you is your fault. Oh, wait, no.

Its the girls own fault, for having the need of so much attention, first of the pictures she took.
And now she is trying to get even more attention by saying she will commit suicide.

If she wants to kill her self by someting this small, then let her.

I don't think you have any idea what you are talking about if you're thinking she took pictures of herself because she was attention-starved. Also, how is somebody victimizing her her fault? I guess it's your fault for not locking your door if somebody walks into your house. Wait, no, it's their fault!

[Deleted]

It's pretty common to find teenagers that threaten suicide for attention, some even go through with it for attention. I know it sounds backwards but in their head they are thinking "FUCK YEH I'LL SHOW EM ALL N EVERYONE WILL CRY!". It's all about wanting to be noticed. Ever met that one girl that had an abortion at 13 and tells EVERYONE about it? They basically abuse personal tragedy to be popular.

[Roose]

I guess that you would be an average MMO_C forum poster if you did not care about anyone but yourself and thought that kids should die for stupid shit they did when they were 12.

Emotionless, yes. Normal, sadly.

[StayTuned]

I don't think you have any idea what you are talking about if you're thinking she took pictures of herself because she was attention-starved. Also, how is somebody victimizing her her fault? I guess it's your fault for not locking your door if somebody walks into your house. Wait, no, it's their fault!

Wellllll, to play the devils advocate, she did actually do it for attention. However, it was just the attention of one guy she wanted to have and, surprisingly enough, this guy didn't do shit until now.

Anyway, she didn't do it again (hopefully) and nobody really seems to care... it will cool down.

[Fitzgerald77]

Good question. Because every human life counts and this is not a person who has decided, in full maturity and thought, that she doesn't want to live anymore, but rather she's a person that is still not fully mature and is pushed by others into this decision, others who treat her like dirt over a decision she made when she was even smaller and more immature, when she was a child.

Well for one thing, many people believe that every single human life is not equal. And a child? She was in 7th grade when she made those pictures. At that stage in her life she should know the difference between right and wrong. She should have known that in this day and age that doing such things can have serious consequences if such pictures were to get into the wrong hands. She really has no one else to blame except for herself for what happened.

If you don't feel bad or wouldn't want to at least try and help her... then you're a horrible human being.

I am? Again, why should I bother getting involved when I don't even know the person? They have an entire family and other close friends that can confront her or that she can talk to, not to mention her principle, teachers and councilors at her school.

It doesn't matter that "shit like this happens to thousands of people every single day". You can't help every single one of that thousand people... but the OP can help this girl. Even if only with a suggestion like "stay strong, don't let the jerks get to you" or something or a kind word or even trying to convince others to stop showing her pictures around if he doesn't want to talk to her at least he can talk with his friends and stop them from distributing the pictures. And why should the OP act in this case when there are thousands of people like that every single day? Because he can. Because he can help someone get better. If this doesn't mean anything to you, you're a one of the most selfish persons there are, rotten to the core.

So just because he goes to the same school as this girl he should be obligated to go out of his way and help her with her problems? Many kids struggle with enough shit in their lives theses days, getting involved in a situation like this with a total stranger would just add more unnecessary stress. I also highly doubt that if the OP went around the school telling people not to pass on these pictures would do anything at all. People are just plain cruel in middle school and especially high school. If anything, it would probably make matters worse, more people would find out about the pictures and more people would be talking about it and more rumors would be spread. I'm willing to bet that the whole school has seen these pictures already.

There is no denying what has happened to this girl is sad/tragic, but people that don't even know her at all should not feel pressured into helping her just because they could.

All this girl can really do is get help from close friends and family and possibly see a therapist due to her suicidal tendencies and just wait until something else happens in her school that will make her become yesterdays news. It's sad, but it's true.

[Deleted]

I don't think you have any idea what you are talking about if you're thinking she took pictures of herself because she was attention-starved. Also, how is somebody victimizing her her fault? I guess it's your fault for not locking your door if somebody walks into your house. Wait, no, it's their fault!

Perhaps your right about she was not attention starved for taking the pictures, but it's her fault anyways. Im pretty sure she sent em over the internet to this guy (her fault). Ye perhaps its the other guys fault who shared the pictures to other people, but she should have tought about that.

[Komati]

This reminds me about that story a while ago about a girl who really did commit suicide because her naked pictures leaked. I couldn't care less. Natural selection at its finest imo.

This. More or less.
Sad for her parents though if she does it. I can imagine her father rolling his eyes big time! x)

[v2prwsmb45yhuq3wj23vpjk]

Wellllll, to play the devils advocate, she did actually do it for attention. However, it was just the attention of one guy she wanted to have and, surprisingly enough, this guy didn't do shit until now.

Anyway, she didn't do it again (hopefully) and nobody really seems to care... it will cool down.

You're not really playing devil's advocate, you're splitting hairs on the definition of 'attention'.

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Perhaps your right about she was not attention starved for taking the pictures, but it's her fault anyways. Im pretty sure she sent em over the internet to this guy (her fault). Ye perhaps its the other guys fault who shared the pictures to other people, but she should have tought about that.

The people at fault are the people who are distributing the pictures beyond their intended audience.

[StayTuned]

You're not really playing devil's advocate, you're splitting hairs on the definition of 'attention'.

Fair enough, I guess. I still think my statement is true and I don't even think that you are disagreeing.

[Deleted]

Why would u care? Humans die, she is no difference. And you didnt cause her death in the event that she kills herself, so why bother?

[v2prwsmb45yhuq3wj23vpjk]

Why would u care? Humans die, she is no difference. And you didnt cause her death in the event that she kills herself, so why bother?

Guilt, sympathy and empathy are all different things.

[Deleted]

The people at fault are the people who are distributing the pictures beyond their intended audience.

No every action has consequences, and so her fault for shareing the pictures-

[v2prwsmb45yhuq3wj23vpjk]

No every action has consequences, and so her fault for shareing the pictures-

People aren't forces of nature. The fault lies with the people who are committing the negative acts. Placing fault in the victims in such a manner allows you to blame rape victims and the like.

[Neazy]

OP is not a bad person. Crazy bitches threaten suicide all the time. It's a form of emotional manipulation. People who ACTUALLY commit suicide don't threaten that they're going to do it.

[StayTuned]

No every action has consequences, and so her fault for shareing the pictures-

The action itself (sending the pictures to her crush) was harmless with no ill intent. It is not up to her to make sure he doesn't share those pictures. She trusted him, he betrayed her... he's the asshole of the week. It's easy as that.

People should just leave her alone if they do not wish to positively contribute in any fashion. Whoever shares pictures like that is scum anyway.

[Deleted]

People aren't forces of nature. The fault lies with the people who are committing the negative acts. Placing fault in the victims in such a manner allows you to blame rape victims and the like.

Some people ARE forces of nature.

But there is a big differnce by clicking a send button on your computer, then beating a girl down and fu*king her against her will.

[Deleted]

I girl in my school has threatened to comit suicide when some nude pictures of her were sent around in my school. She were apparently in 7th grade when she took these pictures of herself, and were currently in the 10th grade. 1 picture of her boobs WITH a bra on, and then another, aimed slightly lower towards her vagina while having no underwear on. Because of the angle you cant see ANY details down below, so its not like a pornographic picture. From what i've heard the pictures were sent to a boy she was flirting with.

Now the pictures found their way to our current school and have been sent around to many people and many people sent them further along. She have reported this to the police and then later threatened to comit suicide.

Me and a couple of other people didn't give two shits about the pictures (which another friend showed us), and we dont give a crap about her comitting suicide or not. Are we emotionless for thinking this way? She took the pictures in the first place, and she sent them to that guy, who must've sent them to other people, so its "kinda" her fault for releasing the pictures to someone else she obviously couldn't trust.

We didn't find the pictures interesting at all and after a quick look it was all "meh, whatever..." kinda feeling.

So to wrap up, are we bad people for not caring about her, or the whole incident?

PS: i've never had the pictures sent to me, and have never sent them to someone else.


god damn typos everywhere... i need to go to bed.

I don't give 2 cents for people who want to commit suicide for something so trivial like this.

You are not alone in your feeling bro.


Although for someone who doesn't care you kind of did a really big post.

Why do you care so much about what we think that you have to justify everything and to explicitly say that you didn't received nor send the pictures to anyone? Honestly i wouldn't give 2 cents if did send them, and why do you care if we think you did send them or not? That makes me wonder if you did send them, and that is interesting to me.

That fact that you seam to be hiding that you send the pictures is more interesting than that stupid girl.

[v2prwsmb45yhuq3wj23vpjk]

Some people ARE forces of nature.

But there is a big differnce by clicking a send button on your computer, then beating a girl down and fu*king her against her will.

Nobody is a force of nature. If they are, they cease being people.

As for the difference between rape and distributing pictures, both require you to make a decision. You are in control of yourself in both situations.

[Deleted]

I agree, so she could have sent them or not.

[v2prwsmb45yhuq3wj23vpjk]

I agree, so she could have sent them or not.

And they are the ones who committed the act that victimized her. The person in the rape situation could have not chosen to walk the way home that they did or some other such thing.