Well, that is exactly it, if you don't think it is worth it to you or it has more bad > good, then it is fine to unsub.
You don't have to do any that you don't want, why do calls if you don't enjoy them ? Why do PvE if you only enjoy doing PvP ? Why do PvP if you only enjoy doing PvE ?
If you don't want to do raid/m+/pvp, then this game is kind of shallow since it's core is the raid/m+/pvp and everything else should be treated like bonuses.
LE: btw, about the sub, I've payed so many times the sub at the gym and I went only for 1-2 days, that didn't meant that the gym was bad, it was purely a me thing. I've payed WoW so many months while playing like just 5-10 days of the whole month, again a me thing.
The only time I've stopped playing it for 1 year was during BFA. Then again that was a ME thing, since it didn't respect my free time and was forcing me in doing PvE while all I wanted was PvP.
You can't force it upon yourself to like it or not. Either you do or you don't.
If you feel it doesn't respect you time, your needs, etc. then thats it
There's a understandable think to see a player that plays the game, to read about the game and stuff. The weird stuff is to hate it and still be part of it ... looks just like a bad marriage, you complain about it and still live in it.
If you've played PvE, it might not felt so chooring as it did for a PvP only player. Can't argue that.
But as far as the gearing goes, BFA had gear showered on everyone and that was a sh1771 thing. To recieve 4 shoulders in the same day, 3 belts other day, 4 boots another day and so on. It made loot feel worhless or not remembarable.
As for people that say "too early to tell", respect your decision, just one question: When you are making love, do you need the whole process to end/finish to know if it is good or not ? I can't belive there are people playing this, forcing themselfs to do something with the ease of mind that "maybe 9.1 will bring something I will enjoy".
But yeah, probably the topic should be "So is shadowlands good so far ?".