Originally Posted by
May90
Well, again, it depends on your priorities. Take me, for example: I am a gamer, a hardcore gamer at that. I would like to have a girlfriend and, in the future, a wife - but I am not exactly dying of loneliness alone either. If I have to choose between sticking to my hobby and being alone for the moment, or giving up my hobby and being with someone else - I will choose the former every time. I only want to get in a relationship with someone who will love me for who I am, who will be okay with my interests, my hobbies, my views. I am not going to lie about myself in order to appease someone; it is not worth it, in my opinion.
For someone, however, who cannot live alone any more and values a relationship, any relationship, more than being true to themselves and their lifestyle - yes, I suppose, staying true to themselves is not an option.