Originally Posted by
MeHMeH
No it is not, you need to be persistent with the definition and the definition states..
ha·rass (hə-răs′, hăr′əs)
tr.v. ha·rassed, ha·rass·ing, ha·rass·es
1. To subject (another) to hostile or prejudicial remarks or actions; pressure or intimidate.
2. To irritate or torment persistently: His mind was harassed by doubts and misgivings.
3. To make repeated attacks or raids on (an enemy, for example).
So this means, you need repeated actions of hostile or prejudicial remarkS Notice how the s makes this plural. Or be pressured or intimidated, see this only needs to happen once, because you know, you can't have people being intimidated.
Now we get to the important part, because this is what matters 2. To irritate or torment persistently, so not just once, but persistently. So, asking someone out, no matter how badly and inept you are at it, is not harassing. Only when you keep doing this can you call it that.