I don't mean to pry, just curious, what surgeries?
Is she a big spoon, or just the big spoon?
It's always a nice feeling when a smaller woman big spoons you, like they're clinging to your back almost for support or something. I've never been with an actual big spoon though, so I don't know if that would feel different.
Can't really decide - but I found the right animation in WoW for my style:
I sleep 90% of the time like the male one. I don't even use a pillow.
the yearner often and sometimes the starfish
Start out as a yearner. But facing away from my husband. The man is a human furnace and I like my back to be warm and my face cool. He's great to spoon and be spooned by when I'm cold, but I can't fall asleep in either position.
Always wake up in freefall.
A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.
Freefaller + foetus
It's like freefaller but the arm in the direction I am facing is under my pillow and the leg on that side is raised up. The other arm is at my side and the leg on that side is straight.
Alone it's a foetus, but I think I roll around while sleeping.
With the GF it's log, because I only get 15% of the bed. I think she sleeps sideways 45º like a yearner.
I fall asleep in the Foetus position (but legs not as bent but not straight either) but always wake up in the soldier position.