With the recent changes to Judgment, we are unexpectedly in a much better place.
You can now build your Ret Paladin so that it actually feels similar to the spec you've been playing for years now. I've been testing with FV, TFoJ, VB, and DP. This combo has yielded the best gameplay IMO. We now lead off with Judgment which just feels right. The main priorities are to keep Judgment on cooldown and never use TV without Judgment being applied to your target. This is now pretty easy. No more waiting on Judgment or situations where you have to decide on whether or not to waste CP. Everything flows very well.
But that is only with the aforementioned selection of talents. Taking Zeal or Divine Hammer wrecks everything. So we still have that problem. It seems we have been given the choice to deal improved AoE damage or have fun playing the spec. No having both. But, that's just my opinion.