So I recently threw myself back in the 'networking' game and noticed a somewhat annoying trend. On the rare chance I got talking to somebody the conversation would ultimately lead to my disability and one of two things occurred; 1. they ignored me 2. they said it doesn't matter they're interested in the person etc. Now after 2 we would naturally talk more and curiosity would continue regarding my imparments (such as requiring a ventilator, limited movement, etc). Thus far this occurred with 5 different guys and all 5 eventually quickly ignored me upon finding out further.
Now should I be angry or understanding? Would you ignore somebody upon finding out?
Personally i'm currently feeling angry, frustrated and disheartened but at the same time understanding that not everybody wants to deal with that shit