Originally Posted by
Slant
To become radicalised? Not per se. But apparently, the main motivation for them is to find an anchor, a sort of ideological "home". They feel like strangers in a country that doesn't accept them (Hi, MMO-C Nazi brigade, that's you fuckwits :P) so when someone offers them tradition, customs and company they feel familiar with (through family or even their homeland), they'll jump to it and abandon all attempts to "integrate" into our societies.
See, the point is that everyone talks about "integration" but people don't know what they mean... they just think super abstract and want "them to integrate". That's it, simple case eh? Just integrate, you fucking towelhead. Well, easier said than done when things are different and people from the country you're in literally tell you that you're unable to integrate (Yo, MMO-C nazi asshats, again this is you!). So why bother? The guys that do integrate have at some point made a decision to just jump into the new culture and see how they can arrange it in a manner that they like and prefer. It doesn't mean they throw away their old culture, it means they literally take bits and pieces that they like and create a new environment for themselves on an individual basis that they like.
For example the Muslima that doesn't wear a hajib until she goes to the Mosque. Or the Muslima that wears a hajib but has funky blue hair and all kinds of naughty piercings. Or take the million young Turks that used to listen primarily to American Hip Hop... integration, ACTUAL practical integration... it happens on its own, it's nothing you can force. But the asshat brigade is full of generation twitter spoiled pricks that want results now. Because when you kill a boss in WoW, you get instant loot. They don't want to wait until things happen by themselves, organically.
And that's why this whole coexistance debate is doomed to fail.