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    No Sex Before Marriage

    So I was looking on my Facebook as I do once in a blue moon and found a post from a British couple in their twenties perhaps even thirties announcing their wedding date after 5 years engaged. Nothing particularly interesting about that then I read that they don't believe in sex before marriage and was genuinely surprised because I didn't think people still believed that in Britain beyond incredibly devote religious people (which is uncommon here) and they claimed they're not overly religious. My immediate thoughts were that she's going to be incredibly disappointed on her wedding night. Got me thinking, do you know people who still believe in no sex before marriage or perhaps even believe it yourself, what's your views?

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    I know plenty of people who believe in it.

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    Fuck that.

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    I dont know anyone who believes in this religious stuff. Its [current year].

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    Thats what they say.... until they found out one of them cheated on the other since the other was not willing. Happens a lot.

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    Don't know anyone who has done that, but i respect it.

    Some people view the world as "overly sexualized" (porn, sexualized content, DTF in discos, "dating" apps, etc..) and try to abstain a bit from it.

    But i honestly must ask... How will they keep being married if the sex is bad?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GennGreymane View Post
    Thats what they say.... until they found out one of them cheated on the other since the other was not willing. Happens a lot.
    Plus this ^
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    None of my fellow Bongs do, but I do know a couple of Americans that do.
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    good for them. if its what they wanted to do to be happy than hoorah for them as a couple. beyond that ..meh
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seiko Sora View Post
    Fuck that.
    You can't, not until you're married. Were you even listening? :P

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    I believe in it (and practice it) for reasons associated to my faith.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GennGreymane View Post
    I believe the button only pops if the seal hasn't been broken yet, not the other way around :3.
    "It's time to kick ass and chew bubblegum... and I'm all outta ass."

    I'm a British gay Muslim Pakistani American citizen, ask me how that works! (terribly)

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    Quote Originally Posted by GennGreymane View Post
    I actually LOLed

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    I know a few here stateside that did it, very few. Most of them are old school catholic adherents.

    One of whom now feels trapped with horrible sex because of it. Man rules the house, submissive wife, when he wants it, always boring and only when they want to have another child. They have 4. And she feels bad for wanting to enjoy sex.

    "Till Death do us part".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Assbandit View Post
    I believe the button only pops if the seal hasn't been broken yet, not the other way around :3.
    Button is "down" if seal is unbroken, once the seal is broken, it pops up.

    Source: 2 jars of dill pickles in the fridge, one opened the other unopened.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Assbandit View Post
    I believe the button only pops if the seal hasn't been broken yet, not the other way around :3.
    I believe it pops only if the jar has been opened already. You see, there is a lower pressure inside the jar and its airtight so the lid is bent inwards when the product is "virgin." Once opened, the pressure will be equal on both sides and you can pop the lid for all eternity.

    EDIT: dam Poopy beat me to this, although with a source we cannot confirm (thus a source which creditability is the same as Poopy's.)
    Last edited by Elofyn; 2016-08-24 at 01:54 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GennGreymane View Post
    Haha, that is awesome.

    OT: I know people who don't believe in sex before marriage (even non-religious people). If that's how you want to do things, I see no problem with it. /shrug.

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    No sex after it as well. People have got to stop breeding.

    In seriousness, I've known a few such believers who have seemingly stuck to it, but lets not get into the amount of blurring of the line they liked to indulge in (and the fetishes they developed due to their behaviour).

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    It is the right thing to do. Those who don't wait are those who often lack morals and don't care for others around them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Poopymonster View Post
    Button is "down" if seal is unbroken, once the seal is broken, it pops up.

    Source: 2 jars of dill pickles in the fridge, one opened the other unopened.
    Oh didn't realize he was actually tapping the jar on the head, I thought it popped when he took the veil off lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zervek View Post
    It is the right thing to do. Those who don't wait are those who often lack morals and don't care for others around them.
    What absolute hogwash and rubbish. By now I'm convinced you just try to stir the pot by saying the first religious thing you can think of .
    "It's time to kick ass and chew bubblegum... and I'm all outta ass."

    I'm a British gay Muslim Pakistani American citizen, ask me how that works! (terribly)

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    People who are engaged for 5 years and don't believe in sex before marriage are asexual (or lying).

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