On MMO-C we learn that Anti-Fascism is locking arms with corporations, the State Department and agreeing with the CIA, But opposing the CIA and corporate America, and thinking Jews have a right to buy land and can expect tenants to pay rent THAT is ultra-Fash Nazism. Bellingcat is an MI6/CIA cut out. Clyburn Truther.
Part of my past affects my current. I can make friends with people. Attempting to connect with anyone on a deeper level has been a terrifying ordeal thanks to developmental issues and a legitimate issue reading people's signals. Factor in having two people lie to your face about why they don't feel the same way ("I'm not dating right now" and "I'm gay". Both exposed by a stupid facebook post.), mixed in with a string of validated but still crushing rejection along with a steady acceptance of dieing a kissless virgin and you get a person who finds great humor in the way things turn out.
I have full respect for leaving people alone that don't want to be bothered. But the way it that ideal spread to just about any male interaction being judged as harassing, I just have to laugh at the people stuck in the same situation I was in before I said fuck it. Thinking the absolute worst things about yourself as you try to think of something to say and on the awkward walk back to your chair.
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There's another good chunk of it. Having to wonder if the reason you got turned down is purely physical or not is another confidence crusher.
On MMO-C we learn that Anti-Fascism is locking arms with corporations, the State Department and agreeing with the CIA, But opposing the CIA and corporate America, and thinking Jews have a right to buy land and can expect tenants to pay rent THAT is ultra-Fash Nazism. Bellingcat is an MI6/CIA cut out. Clyburn Truther.
Posts like this make me almost want to thank "God" I am not straight.
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Hmm, my brother isnt handsome but he is attractive (excudes confidence, looks after himself, not socially akward or mysoginistic, tad mysterious)
So guys, I think you can do without the handsome part...just dont look like a duck!
the title of this thread alone screams triggered feminist, why should we care about your problems
So, she is afraid of asking a man "Having a good night?", and it is the man's fault? Niiiiiiice!
I remember, back when I was in the 5th grade or so, we had a dance party, I walked up to the most beautiful girl in our class - and froze and couldn't get myself to invite her for a dance. Now I know: it was her fault! After 16 years of agonizing, finally my consciousness is clean!
Can't really comment on the British perspective of things. I've never experienced anything like what she has described in that article, though. Here in the US, the more you go out = more people you meet = more dating opportunities. Men are still hella forward, today I took my dog to a park (was there for about 45 minutes, not that large and crowded of a park). Two different men chatted with me, one yelled from across the park saying how beautiful I was. This is NOT (emphasis: NOT) to brag or humblebrag or what have you--I'm pretty average-ish looking--my point is that here, men are plenty forward, they flirt all of the time, if you're smile and polite and thank them for the compliments/saying hello they are more likely to flirt with you and/or other women in the future. Flirting is fun and that hasn't stopped happening here, at least based on my experience.
That being said...yes bar scene feels different depending on the bar, people are more likely to show up with dates/someone they met via a dating app and are into their phones a lot. This is true for both genders. But a lot depends on where you're at, what time etc. My best experiences in bars were in Chicago during undergrad, one was a hole in the wall place downtown and there was lots of bar hopping/chatting with the bartender (who knew everyone by name) and other bar patrons, etc. There are places like that in Portland but harder to find, overall the hipster vibe gives the bar scene an impersonal feel I think. People are more interested in the novelty of the drink than the quality of the conversation. But again, not everywhere.
seems to me like article written by fat chick who knows she has no chance the moment she sends her picture /shrug
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you forgot about very important and extremly strong aphrodisiac that works on majority of women :
0) have a lot of $$$$$$$
lifes not fair and p2w - its sad truth but its absolute truth
thats not easy though
from psychological point of view
a cunt will give them constant rollercoaster of emotions and feelings
sensitive men will appear to them as .... boring and uninteresting
untill they hit 30-35 and realise that cunts are not husband materials while good men dont want used product since at the age of 30-35 they already have $$$$ and can atract much younger chicks much easier.
As we now know thanks to modern feminism, flirting is sexual assault and rape. The author of this article must be arrested and sentenced to jail for promoting rape-culture
I have no problems talking with women in a conversation, but as soon as it becomes apparent it gets into the "flirty" area, I get incredibly cautious and a barrier forms, kinda.
For me, there's a multitude of reasons I can think about which have added to this problem's creation.
-Parent's divorce when I was young
-No male rolemodel in the form of father/brother/friends to help that transition into manhood/ways of approaching women etc
-having been bullied during several years of school (in some cases by a girl), which complete killed my selfconfidence for socializing in general, but relationships in special, because you'll think "Who wants to be with someone as unlikeable as me" or "I've had most of the class against me or just watching, so I cant trust others".
So during a time where I would've normaly made first experiences with girls/women, I lacked even the smallest of helping aspects in my environment.
With some years after the bullying, selfconfidence came back, but had a
-severe fear of rejection (looking at above, makes sense, right?)
which makes that first step, which is MUCH more likely to be a rejection than a yes, that much harder. Not mentioning nevousness and other fuck ups which would ruin a otherwhise yes...
Women are free to choose their men, but I dare say few realize that they cause more than disappointment for some men with a no.
If you've been rejected enough, it's probably as bad or worse as never being approached at all for a woman.
And the author of the post says it's dangerous for a woman to be proactive. Well for men it's as dangerous (confidence-wise).
And if she starts talking about predators...if you see people in that light (that being proactive would endanger you), you basically shame men as a general for being dangerous and not in control of their lust and such, so why dare the approach, on fear for being likened with a rapist, or at least getting a insensitive NO, or worse, a hurting NOOOOO/insulting laught/ignore?
To add to all those things:
-Internet
With stuff like Feminazism and MGTOW and the like, you're showered with reasons why not to take the plunge.
If your male society tells you women are are choosey, insensitive, money-hungry, self entitled, privileged and acting on it, selfish beings with double standards...
...And you see A LOT of footage of women acting it out...
You'll get even more fearful and paranoid of getting to know women.
Well, that's just my story. Maybe some of my points apply to some others as well.
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And watch out for Ladies that tell your / her friends that you where bad in Bed..
eg: He may be a Triple Olympic Champion, but Usain Bolt's "One Night Stand" in Rio , has called him bad in bed.
http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/ren...8f3060c61ecd0b
Usain Bolt’s sexual prowess doesn’t live up to his athletic success, a Rio one-night stand has complained after he never
called her back after allegedly cheating with her on his long-term girlfriend .
I really thought we had something going,” 20-year-old Brazilian Jady Duarte said.
“He has the body of a champion although his male parts do not match. He is just like a regular guy.
“I was expecting him to be fast but it was actually the slowest sex I’ve ever had.”