Hmm, the less I read the internet the more I find I do enjoy Ret in its current form. It's not the best thing ever, but I do think we're created a bit of an echo chamber here that's making things worse than they actually are.
Anyway.
Ashes to ashes has pretty much made all my dreams come true. After taking the 18 point way of getting there it feels like I'm finally complete and things have come together in way that's now fun to play. 1 single ability and I've switched back from Prot (an man am I loving me some prot). It's given me hope based on dungeon performance that I'll be ok for raiding. We're talking heroic and casual mythic here, I'll be ok. The DPS increase was incredible. It's not a good thing that one single ability that takes time to get would be so necessary for out spec but it sure feels good to finally have it. For a little testing I've found that the burn alone is accounting for about 10-12% dps, never mind the 5 holy power every 30 seconds, this had suddenly erased any and all empty GCDs, which are the bane of my existence at low haste.