I would hire a portfolio manager, accountant and attorney to manage the money as efficiently and effectively as possible. And then do the following:
1. Pay off all my debts
2. Set aside 5 million for each of my children, in a trust, which matures at 35. So they can fuck up for awhile and not waste it.
3. Gift some money to close friends so they don't have to worry about debt - say $250k-$500k each.
4. Build our dream house.
5. Set aside $10 million for when I'm 60 or more, another unbreakable trust, just in case I fuck up somehow.
6. Donate money and time to homeless children.