I agree wholeheartedly. I want players in my guild that I find it fun to play with. Which means that everyone of them should feel exactly how I do in terms of what I find fun in the game. If this is the case then great things may happen in terms of experience. If you don't want to progress hard then don't advertise yourself as such. Who is fooling who here? You're going to have a bad time if you lie to yourself.
I may not agree with a lot you say or how you say it Injin, but atleast you are honest to yourself and your guild apparantly.
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Is it not really how it works. If I look back at my own experience (hardcore raider) I would be unable to relax or cope with a guild filled with people who would not take the game as serious as I did.
I would mind how many wipes it took to kill a boss. I would not be happy if we wiped time and again to bosses we downed before.
You can accept it for a time or just accept it. But after a certain point you simply cannot go on. Your "true nature" will emerge and you will look for other guilds.
Is it not the same with relationships really?
First you are in love with that person. You really like everything about it. It is all new. Then as time goes on, you find yourself being annoyed at certain things.
Some people get divorced/seperated. Some people stay in the relationships and hate it, but stay anyway. And some people can find it in themselves to truly accept the others "differences".
So with guilds it is pretty much the same. I ended up leaving my guild to form my own one. Best decision ever